Tuesday, June 30, 2015

15 unspoken rules of courtesy that everyone should adhere to!!!

   Hello LD Fam, how is your day going, you know we are quickly forgetting our courtesies, somethings are just reasonable to do as a young man or young Lady, so when this article was sent in by boo that i should post, i was very happy, read and enjoy, Do you agree with them of you don't , share your thoughts in the comments section...

Times are changing. A lot of the rules in our society, that were once very rigid, are now something that we hardly pay heed. But while some rules and regulations on what might be considered as good behavior are obsolete now; there still exists a bunch of unspoken ones that one needs to adhere to.

These are rules that have a lot to do with commitment, gratitude, privacy and general courtesy.

Monday, June 29, 2015

What Do you look out for in a spouse??

Hello Lovely LD fam, good morning sweethearts, Happy new week, How was your weekend, mine was awesome, you remember i said my brother was getting married this month, last Saturday was the D-day, i enjoyed myself, as i got to see people i have not seen in years and all of them be looking at me and saying, you are all grown now...lol, i had so much fun, as i even participated in the catching of the Bride's bouquet though i didn't catch, Sunday was beautiful too, it was mid-year thanksgiving and i enjoyed the service, all in all, my Weekend was glam.

   Now straight to today's post because i know i have not been blogging consistently this month, During the wedding it just dawned on me that at least every marriage went through the wedding process, the bride and groom having radiant smiles on their faces and everywhere looking beautiful, but how come we have so many failed marriages, why do some people have so many awful stories of hurt in their marriage, where have we missed it when it comes to marriage??

Thursday, June 25, 2015

How do you deal?

Hello my lovely LD fam,good morning, how is the week going, gradually i am begining to understand and see life from a different point of view and all this understandings are making me not to be able to drag anything with anyone or struggle for anything because at the end of the day, all is vanity also i am always thankful for every minute of life, what is money without happiness, what is comfort without peace of mind???...so dearies even with that little, if you have peace of mind, don't drag what your hands can't reach, just be patient and it will all make sense

  On a second note, how many of us have that shoe, cloth or underwear that you like so much, despite the fact that its old, you can't just let go  of it, i do, i have this pair of sandals that i love so much and i feel comfortable wearing it, despite the fact that the sole is gradually splitting into two, i am still rocking it and i would still continue to rock it till it finally cuts into two...lol...

  Now to the point of today's post, hoe do you deal with a stubborn headed friend, someone who does not take other people's opinion, someone that believes she is always right, even though every person around her thinks she is wrong, how do you deal with such person in love?

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Inspiration wednesday-Life is like a box of chocolates

Hello and goodmorning to everyone, i dunno but since i started inspiration Wednesday, there is this deep feeling of responsibility that i have every Wednesday, i feel i must always lift someone's heart and mind and make them feel better, and am glad that God has been helping me with that.Likening life to chocolate was and interesting experience, read and be inspired

  I have come to understand that Life is a misery, today its going right and tommorrow its turning left, You never know what to expect from life,until you go through life daily,so the quote below truly describes life

Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get-Forest Gump

  But then again, i discovered that life can be likened to a box of chocolates too on many other level, so below is what i discovered after my research

Life is like a box of chocolates, each piece is different but it takes them all to complete the package. Challenges, struggles, happy moments, joyful moments, moments of loss and all moments in life can be different but it takes them all to make life complete

Life is like a box of chocolates, if it is empty, it makes everyone sad. If life is uneventful and unexciting and there are no different moments, then it makes everyone sad

Life is like a box of chocolates,if you only try the ones you like, you ll never know how great something new can be. If you fail to try out new things and explore Life, then you will never know how sweet life can be

Life is like a box of chocolates, the sweetest thing you can do is enjoy them. Enjoying life and taking whatever life throws at you calmly and seeking solution is the best way to enjoy life.

Life is like a box of chocolates, some can be very sweet while some can leave a sour taste in your mouth.Life can be very sweet attimes and can be the other way round at other times, but above all learn to enjoy life

Life is like a box of chocolates, you get used up and thrown away

Life is like a box of chocolates, its messy and makes you get your hand dirty

Monday, June 22, 2015

The power of a Woman

Hello my beautifuls, yes i know i have not been consistent on blogsville lately, power supply has been terrible and then i have been a bit lazy lately, am sorry dearies, and i am wishing you a very aazing and fruitful week ahead

  Yes, i am excited about today's post, one of the things i am most thankful for is been a woman,yes the bible says we are the weaker vessels but in reality we are stronger than the strongest, if you are a woman and you know how to use your power of being a woman well, i believe you can get anything done because if we set our hearts to do anything, we always get it done

Saturday, June 20, 2015

Men spend more time Gossiping than women?

Hello LD fam, greetings to everyone, how is your weekend going? am sorry i went away for too long, blame it on epileptic power supply, how have been managing to keep my phone on is great miracle, i missed this space, i felt like a part of me was missing each day i don"t get to put a post up.
 On today's topic, I read something weird in the punch today, a certain study concluded that men spend more time Gossiping than women, how can that be?

Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Inspiration Wednesday- The pencil motivation

 Hello lovely LD Fam, happy mid week, you know sometime last week i met someone who said something that really strucked me, the person said, i know one can not always lack forever, you cannot be poor forever, because their will be a point in your life when you will be bouyant, there will be an opportunity for you to be great and do ex[loits, the problem is just that some of us are always blind to our opportunities, so dearies always look out for your opportunity to be great Today on inspiration wednesday, lets look at the pencil motivation, read and be inspired;

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Personality Tuesday- Dealing with low self esteem

Hello beautiful people, how is your week going?? Remember last week  we talked about temperament in personality Tuesday and i love the discussion we had, God bless you all

Today lets talk about Self esteem, while i was growing up and even up to recently i was battling with low self esteem, i just use to feel everyone is better than i am, but  just recently i got transformed from it all thanks to one wonderful person in my life, well low self esteem is when one is always feeling insignificant or less important, it could be a dream killer and it makes you feel less human, it could be caused by what you believe about yourself, It could be as a result of experiences i.e what you saw, heard or experienced earlier in life, it could also be as a result of neglect, abuse, failing to meet parental or peer group standards and lack of warmth, affection or family love
pics source: google


Believe in yourself
: yes believe you can achieve anything and you are the best thing that has happened to the world, love and pamper yourself,  and most of all be around the people that love you and bring the best out of you (this really worked for me) because when you want to give up on yourself, they are always there to lift you up

Monday, June 15, 2015

6 Red flags to look out for in any relationship

Hello my people, *kneels down* am sorry for not putting up love the greatest of all 2 up yesterday as promised, i went to an owanbe, it was a wedding and i was enjoying the groove of the new bride and groom, that i could not type the post, because i was too excited, i can't wait for my big day too, it was an exciting experience mehn, well next Sunday by God's grace the post will be up, hope my apology is accepted?

Well i believe in knowledge and finding out about things, so thats why am presenting you this six traits below, have a blessed week ahead lovelies
Red flags are violations of proper dating etiquette and standards. Everyone dating should protect their hearts and minds from those looking to abuse them. Everyone wants love, and everyone deserves love. No one, however, deserves to be abused.
These six red flags below indicate things to watch out for when you’re dating someone. If someone is currently treating you this way or starts to treat you in any of these ways in the future, RUN! Don’t look back!

1. They Want to Change
You Have you only been dating for a short period of time and they are already telling you they hate your life-long friends? That is a HUGE red flag! Have they already been encouraging you to move in with them, or worse yet, move out from where you’re currently living with family, friends, or your own apartment to a place they feel will be more fitting, alone? Do they complain about the way you do your hair, what clothes you wear, and try to watch yourevery move? Do they laugh at your dreams and goals telling you that they are stupid or that you should focus on something else?You, my friend, are dating a control freak, and you should run as fast as you can! Control freaks don’t really love you or accept you the way you are. They simply want you to fit the narrative of what they feel the perfect partner is for them. They want someone they can watch and break down. Life is too short to live it the way someone else thinks you should live it.

Friday, June 12, 2015

Discussion Friday...cheap or brave?

Hello my lovely people, TGIF mhen, lets get straight to the point, see the pic below? what do you think, do you think the lady is brave or you think this is cheap, holla at the comment section, i can't wait to hear your opinion

Pic source: Nigerianwedding instagram

Thursday, June 11, 2015


 Hello dearest LD Fam, good morning, well Thursdays are a reminder that Friday is close by right? and the weekend is close by, well for now am not always excited about weekends because i work everyday of the week except Sundays at times, but above all am thankful for unexplainable grace that is evident in my life and for all the amazing people in my life who make life worth living and you with that two eyes reading this , yes you, you are part of them, thank you so much for always stopping by to read, you don't know how important your coming here to read and leaving a comment is to me, God bless you all

 Today i want to talk of one thing that annoys me most on Nigerian roads, its the Horn, the Horn has been greatly abused by Nigerian Car users, i don't know if its like that in other parts of the world o, but am sure Cherri, mami Tibs and others can tell us if it is, but in this Nigeria part of the things Horns are used for are:

To say Hello
 when they see someone that they know on the road driving by, to say hello or greet the person, you just hear them blow their Horn pon pon pon....so annoying , am my dad does this attimes too

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

Inspiration Wednesday-Self control

Hello dearest LD fam, how was your day???am so sorry inspiration wednesday is coming in late, jibbyks had to travel and go get somethings done and i was exhausted when i got back
Well today i learnt that if you don't have self control then you can never suceed in life, thats why when i saw the pic below on instagram, i could totally relate to it, its so true...what do you think?

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Personality Test- Temperament

 Hello my lovely, people, how is your week going, mine has been awesome, am just very happy this days like someone that licked one drum of honey, am thankful for God's grace, when i look at this year all together, i have a lot to be thankful for, enough of me already!

  Today we are going to engage ourselves with Personality Test, you know, i have come to understand that, if you don't know yourself, then you can't deal with other people, you will end up either been always hurt or always stepping on other people's toes, at a point in my life, i was very angry with everyone around me, people always getting on my nerves and annoying me, then i knew something was wrong with me, everyone can't be bad, then i went through the personality test,believe me, now there is rarely any person i can't live with, i spent part of my secondary school days in the boarding house, all through my university days, my school was fully residential, so we all lived in the hostel, is either we are 8 in a room, or 6 in a room and the lowest is 4 in a room, believe me i learned to be very tolerant and then i discovered that if you know each other, you will find it easy to relate well, which is where Temperament comes in, Temperament is a person's nature that affects their behavior, now there are basically four types of temperament which are:

Monday, June 8, 2015

7 things you should not tell your friends about your relationship

Hello LD Fam, good morning and have a blessed week ahead.Remember to let love shine in everything you do this week and the lord will bless all you lay your hands on but to avoid stories that touch the heart, stop sharing things that are personal with friends, read and learn!
Relationships work better when they’renot exposed to the whole world! Sure, we all want to brag about this and that but some things are better kept between the two of you.

Source- Google

1. Intimate Details
What happens in the bedroom, should stay in the bedroom. Never, and I meanNEVER, let out your int.imacy Details toyour friends. It’s not only bad if your partner gets to hear it from someone else, it’s just embarrassing. No one wants you to tell them how good or bad the s.ex is, keep it in the bedroom, only you can make your Friends respect your partner and the in.timate details should be kept from even the closest of friends.

Sunday, June 7, 2015

LOVE-The greatest of all

 Hello LD fam, Happy Sunday, how did your weekend go, i love Sundays, i can't explain why, well here is wishing every BV a blessed and wonderful week ahead.

  Today i want to talk about Love, Love is when you go out of your way to make another person better,even God encourages Love,Love is the greatest of all commands,
Galatians 5:22 says For the fruit of the spirit is Love,joy....
 when you have Love you are manifesting the fruit of the spirit, now you can show love to anybody, Love yourself, Love your Neighbor, show love to that stranger, show love to that Old Man/Woman on the street, show love to people that can not repay you back, yes thats how to manifest the fruit of the spirit Love, if we love ourselves and we show love as much as possible to every human, am sure the world will be a lot better than it is now

Friday, June 5, 2015


Toke Makinwa took to instagram yesterday morning to gush about her love for her hubby maje Ayida, read what she wrote below


  Hello LD fam, choi, this weather na die, its a cold and rainy day here, how is your side??, this is the kind of days i wish i could stab work and just be in door sleeping, but mhen you can't sleep too much when you are young, so that your Old Age won't suffer for it, well am sorry i have not been very regular  here, no am not lazy? and i didn't run out of ideas, its phcn or phc whatever, that company that is supplying power fore my area sha, na dem dey mess up, its really terrible mhen, and i wish Uncle Sai baba will do something about Power Supply in Nigeria Asap,enough of my whinning...

Well straight to the matter of this post, Someone needs our help in form of advice, Dear LD fam, this will go a long way in making someone better,so please just help with your honest Opinion,
 The question is, Is it betrayal to date your friend's EX, the poster wants to know if she can go ahead and date someone her friend once dated but they are not dating again??

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

INSPIRATION WEDNESDAY- When Life throws you down

Hello dearest LD fam, Good morning, happy mid week, mhen Phcn is overrated, how am managing to blog is God's grace, may God help us
Well today on inspiration wednesday, the word is when life brings you down, get up and give life a hard knock on the face, never let your challenges, struggles and what you are facing bring you down, yes i know, it hurts sometimes, its painful but you have to rise above it, you have to wrap your struggles in strength and below are ways you can rise above your challenges,

Monday, June 1, 2015


 Hello dearest LD fam, Good morning, Happy New Week, Happy New Month.... choi, i can greet for Africa, blame it on my Yoruba Upbringing, well my weekend was amazing, i got to be with le boo, after so many months of not seeing that dude, mhen it was refreshing and wonderful, so now you know why i didn't blog all through the weekend, although the power supply was terrible too

 Happy new month once again my people, its mid year,can't believe that by next month we will start the second half of the year, well lets do a little review, we all have a laid out plan for the year right, goals, dreams, standards and resolutions,its mid year already, how far have you gone with your goals?? what about that resolution you made at the beginning of this year, that bad habit you wants to stop, how far have you gone with it?? well for me, it looks like you still have a chance to restructure and re plan and those goals can still be achieved if you get back on track, so the month of June is a reminder month for you that the year is soon running to an end and you have to get back on track