tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28297192346949093352024-03-13T14:55:27.385-07:00 LIFE'S DIARY GOD,Lifestyle,Life issues,Love,Gists and relationship. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.comBlogger101125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-13654466662597668852015-11-03T03:41:00.001-08:002015-11-03T03:41:29.678-08:00The Demon called money! <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello, happy new month, it's really been a while, thanks to everyone who checked while I was away, thanks for all the love notes, chats and mails, I feel really honoured, yes, the year is almost running to an end and am so glad because it's really a long and amazing year for me, I might not be where I want to be yet but then I have reasons to be thankful while I hope for the better, what about you, how has the year been for you????? <br />
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Let's get straight to the post, notice I called money a demon? Well it might not be a demon in every sense of it, but then, money is something you can't do without but iit is. What you have too that if you are not careful can destroy one's life. Even the Bible says money is the root of all evil, in everything in life moderacy is key, yes, we all work to make money to make living comfortable for us but then when you have excessive love for money, then it is that money that destroy such individual<br />
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Well my point is that, we as human must not allow the love of money to rule our life, money is a factor of life, that we human should control, not money controlling human,iIhave heard stories of really wierd things that people have done because of Money and my little piece of advice is that when the love for money wants to push you to do selfish and greedy things, control it and do not let it control you. <br />
Do have a nice day people and please check in for inspiration Wednesday tomorrow, it promises to be amazing, I love. You all<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-2160776375259559212015-09-07T01:03:00.000-07:002015-09-07T01:03:52.796-07:005 Golden rules to an hitch free life<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Dearies, good morning, happy new week, i pray this week brings unspeakable joy and blessings to you in Jesus name. I have come to understand, that most of the issues we have in life are interpersonal issues,when you don't get on well with your friends, co-worker or even your spouse, it all leads to frustration, depression and bitterness. So to start your week I thought to share this 5 rules that can enhance your interpersonal relationship and help you to live and hitch free life<br />
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<b>Rule1: Tame Your Tongue</b><br />
This rule is really important for anyone that wants to be successful in life, mind what you say, control your tongue anand do not let your tongue control you, even the bible advise us to be quick to listen and be slow to speak, use your tongue to bring things to life not to murder them, if one is really disciplined with one's mouth, then one can really lead an hitch free life to an extent<br />
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<b>Rule2: Give in the measure you want to receive</b><br />
This rule can simply be put as unto others what you want them to do unto you, it will go a long way in improving your inter personal relationship, you want to do anything to anyone? First put yourself on a test, would you accept if it were you??<br />
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<b>Rule3:Discipline yourself</b><br />
Self discipline is key, every human being needs it, it does not just happen, it takes conscious effort, am a work in progress in this aspect too, set rules for yourself and stick to it, train yourself not to be lazy and not to settle or do some things, be trained from inside and people will learn to respect wat you stand for, because ir you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything<br />
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<b>Rule4: Be courtesy conscious</b><br />
Learn to be courtesy conscious, say "sorry" "please" and "thank you" when needed ,this simple words work like magic<br />
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Pray, tell it to God, he won't judge you, if you feel like talking to someone, its fine but if you don't trust them to watch your back then tell it to God.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-41284738779514916002015-09-02T09:56:00.000-07:002015-09-02T10:02:53.590-07:00ARE YOU BEAUTIFUL??<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Yaay! am so happy to be back, clearing cobwebs, my sweethearts, i am sorry, no am sorry is not enough but i am really sorry, life has been going on a fast track for me, i have had a lot on my plate lately that i feel 24hours is not enough, Msc, new job e.t.c but i promise am back for real, i will try as much as possible not to neglect this space and then i have learnt, self discipline is key, one cannot achieve anything without it, enough of me already, how is everyone?? i know have missed a lot and i really will catch up, a big thanks to everyone that checked on me and encouraged me, before i write an epistle, let's go straight to the post.<br />
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Do you know that it is not perfect make up, good cloth, or good body structure e.t.c that makes one beautiful, yes those physical things add up, they make you look good, but they are not true definition of beauty, if you wrap a delicious chocolate in a dirty and unattractive wrapper, no one will take a look at it not to talk of opening it, thats the importance of looking good on the outside, because it serves as the point of attraction.<br />
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But it is inward beauty that can keep the attraction burning, do you know there is what is called inward beauty?? Inward beauty in terms of character, intelligence and dilligence, as women of purpose and women of virtue, we most almost long to improve ourself, learn new things, be creative, learn to be nice, it is very important, even if you are not, try it often and then you will see that it comes easy, be respectful,be God fearing, value relationships and always keep to promise, just learn to be of good behaviour always, it won't cost you anything but it will add a lot to you because you never can tell who is watching and smile always it makes you beautiful.<br />
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So, always strife to be beautiful inside out, because when the outward beauty fades, the inward beauty will be there to Compliment you, thanks for stopping by, please share with someone *smiles* </div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-15960915303356117832015-07-30T03:59:00.001-07:002015-07-30T03:59:54.269-07:0010 factors that scare Nigerian men away from marriage<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello beautiful people, *pops collar, i know ya all went to know where and what i have been up to, well in subsequent post i will talk about it, so, it is a general believe that Nigerian men shy away from marriage, when i read this reasons i knew i had to share, i totally i agree with no2 ,3,7,8,10, lets talk in the comments section, what do you think?<br />
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So, what are those factors that scare Nigerian men away from marriage? We have tried to compile some reasons that make most men feel jittery to converse on ‘Marriage’ as topic, feel free to add yours if not in our list.<br />
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1.<b> No wife materials</b>: Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage. If this is the case, time of quality search can help heal the wound of such man.</div>
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2<b>. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past: </b>Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole. But, this might not be the fault of women as promiscuity is not an exclusive act than can be carried out without the consent of either gender.</div>
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3. <b>Nigeria weddings are expensive:</b> In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. As of last year, the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N500,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost. For most people, especially in this economy, that’s a lot of money. But all we advise is that men should try and cut their coat according to their material</div>
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4. <b>In search of a ‘working class’</b>: Today, most Nigerian men are in search of awife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, theincreasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man,the burden of building a home.</div>
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5.<b> Fear of freedom: </b>There is a common belief among some men that marriage puts an end to one’s freedom. Single men today are much more proud about not being dependent and being on their own. They fear marriage because they will become answerable for every action they take to their spouse. That is one big responsibility some men are not ready to take up.</div>
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6. <b>Career</b>: One of the predominant question most men will secretly ask themselves before making the decision to marry are, Will my partner make agitated about me being in office for long hours? Will he or she understand my love for my career? These are cogent questions and answering these questions could slow the decisive actions to be taken on marriage plans.</div>
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10. <b>Cultural limitations</b>: Nigeria is a country with diverse culture and The diversity sometimes create challenges for men who are in search of women with similar culture. The good thing though is thatthose who endeavor to explore inter-culturalrelationships get the opportunity to gain an in-depth appreciation of other customs.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-21912143673824241742015-07-29T04:22:00.001-07:002015-07-29T04:24:35.212-07:00Inspiration Wednesday- Character traits of sucessful people<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Where do i start apologizing from??? No reason i just stopped coming around, hello people Good morning, Happy mid week, how is everyone doing??? how has blogsville been in my absence, am going round as soon as i drop this post, to see things myself, shoutout to everyone Who drops by, i can't begin to mention all your names, but i know God ll best you all abundantly.<br />
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Every one dreams and longs to be sucessful, but not everyone has what it takes to be sucessful, sucessful people have the most horrible stories of failure and downfall in life, but they have certain character traits that makes them standout, which is what we are going to talk about today, read and be inspired!<br />
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<b>Self</b> <b>confidence</b>: If you read biographies and stories of sucessful people, most of them are from irrelevant backgrounds, they are from not so well to do families, but most of them do not look at where thay are coming from, they focused on where they are going, they believed in themselves and pursued their dreams, they keep doing their things eveb when people around them told them they were useless and couldn't make it, they kept pushing because they believed<br />
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<b>Creativity</b>: ideas are what rules the world, creativity, doing ordinary things in extra ordinary ways, thinking out of the box is what made some of the most sucessful people in the world today, looking at one thing and developing alternative ways is what been creative is all about.doing things in ordinary ways ll only yield ordinary results,creativity is what brings extra ordinary result and you and I can do it if we only task our brains a little.<br />
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<b>Hard</b> <b>work</b>: has anyone ever heard the saying "nothing good comes easy" yes it is true, hardwork is what makes people stand out, laziness and been slugard will only make someone stagnant, when you put all your efforts in something ,it yields massive sucess with time, even the bible condems laziness<br />
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<b>Perseverance</b>: things don't always fall in place at once, there will be fall, faulure and setbacks, sucessful people are not quitters, they don't give up easily, they keep pushing and staying strong in the face of any thing, they keep giving it their best and it eventually yields sucess for them.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-26896407863764586822015-07-18T02:39:00.001-07:002015-07-18T02:39:46.062-07:00Secrets of an irresistable Woman<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello everyone,*clears cobwebs* am sorry for just going and coming back as i like, nothing to blame it on except my laziness, but i promise, i will make amends by God's grace.<br />
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Ask any lady of this age and time, what do you want in a spouse, and she goes, a man that will take of me, love me, cherish me...blah blah me, one word that is constant 'ME' , it only means such a person just wants to go and be receiving without giving back, and believe such marriages never work, as a woman, what are you bringing to the table, before you can seek the heart of a king, you must be a Queen, so before you write a journal or long list of what you want in a man, be sure to be a woman of value, a virtuous woman,an irresistable woman whose price is far above rubies</div>
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Hello my sweethearts, good morning, how is everyone doing, its a beautiful morning and enjoying the cool inspirational vibes am listening to, inspiration wednesday promises to be interesting tommorrow, do make it a date.<br />
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I really am battling with putting today's topic up, but then again, this issue has been on my mind for a long time, and then again i realise that so many singles are having issues with this topic too, a lot of people have actually asked me on this issue too, but i don't have the correct answer to it<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-74491143482645486272015-07-13T01:37:00.000-07:002015-07-13T01:37:39.133-07:00Social media;A blessing or a curse???<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Hian, am not good at singing,i would have sang an introductory love song for all BVs but not to worry, i ll someday, For now, thanks to everyone who stops by this space, thanks for your amazing views and comments, God bless you all, Happy new week people, how is the weather like in your side? Well its going to be a bright Monday here, this was supposed to be friday's post but my blogger app was just messing up all througg the weekend</div>
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Lets discuss something interesting today, am a big fan of social media; facebook, bbm, twitter, instagram,youtube,blogs e.t.c, well am addicted to some of this platforms because i could get to talk to almost anyone i want to talk to by just chatting with them, facebook updates me on events and things about my friends and loved ones, then i kind of love talking about politics and the state of the nation, facebook and twitter does all the job, instagram is my go to place for update on trends, latest music, latest outfit,celebrity gist and everything...so, to me social media is a huge blessing but on the other way round, sometimes i hate social media because people tend to hide behind the screen of their phones, pc or tablet to spew bad vibes to other people especially celebs, another one is all this sexually provocative pictures and videos plastered all over facebook attimes and then people have turned everything in Nigeria to social media jokes with different hashtags and memes...<br />
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But all in all, social media in my own opinion is still a blessing, its a platform we can now use to speak out as youth, its a platform we can use to know whats going on in the society, its a platform we can use to learn new things and its a platform we can use to keep close contact...whats your opinion? Is social media a curse or a blessing???</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-56319378749543848842015-07-09T01:16:00.002-07:002015-07-09T01:16:24.545-07:005 simple ways to make you and your partner stay in love<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Do you know you can be in a relationship or marriage and not be in love??? Do you even know that love is like a garden, if not tended to or taken care of and watered, it could become ugly and the beauty could die? Have you ever wondered why two people who were in love turned out not liking eachother again? Well the answer is Love needs constant nuturing and oiling and greasing for the fame to continue to burn, often times because we have been with our partner for long either in relationship or marriage, we tend to let our guards down and we don"t remember to do simple things that flames love again, here are the 5 things you can do to make the flames of your love keep burning for long<br />
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<b>Always be at you best: </b>This is for both gender, step up your game, Look good always, you know the level of your spouse, don't dress below that, be presentable, let them be always proud to show you off to their friends and co-workers stay in shape and know what suits your body, smell nice and i believe we all know what how spouse likes us to dress, do not look shabby and disfigured because you have been together for long, keep doing the things you do before that attracts them to you.<br />
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<b>Spend Time together: </b>make out time to be together, every loving relationship needs dedicated time to grow and be the best it can be, spending quality time enjoying eachother's company, going out on dates, talking and listening to eachother's challenges and encouraging eachother create memories that last long and keep the flames of love burning<br />
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<b>Give eachother Space:</b> as much as you must spend time together, you must give eachother space too, a healthy relationship needs space to allow eachother's individualities and identities to flourish, give room to miss eachother, so that when you are together you can maximise been together, each partner should live their lives, Go out, take time to be around other people, do your favourite sports e.t.c so that when you are together, you appreciate eachother more.<br />
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<b>+1</b> <b>Pray together</b>: A couple that prays together, stays together'</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-80328719177941972512015-07-08T01:19:00.001-07:002015-07-08T01:19:51.464-07:00Inspiration wednesday-you have to be strong<p dir="ltr">Hello my beautiful people, how is everyone doing??? Choi...i missed this space mehn,i missed everyone...*side eyes* to Amaka, reading her comment this morning made me laugh out loud and it really did melt my heart...so i had to quickly open blogger...</p>
<p dir="ltr"> Well Inspiration wednesday today is talking to jibbyks, i wish i could pour out my heart here, *But some people who knows me personally, come here annoymously*i wish behind the smiles and happiness i show to people around me the pain in my heart could show but no it does not because i know i have to be strong....</p>
<p dir="ltr"> Have you ever felt so much pain deep within that you can't talk to anyone about it because words can't explain how you feel or you feel people can't understand you, thats exactly how have been feeling lately...but i know that this too shall pass if i am strong, life is throwing me different punches but i won't allow myself to be down for long because this is part of the sharpening, i have to go through, because nothing good comes easy in life and so that i can be more grateful when i reach my goal...</p>
<p dir="ltr">But as am typing this post, my heavy heart is melting..... i know before the year runs out, testimony shall abound....in every situation you have to be strong, you have to wrap your struggles in strength and just let God fix it which is exactly what am doing now and what you should try to do too..<br>
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Let me go straight to the reason of today's post, during my final year in the uni, one of the 8 Mdg goals i was thought was gender equality, but in reality i feel there cannot be such thing, the male gender is still very much favoured than the female gender... if a woman is pregnant, and she gives birth to a female child as ist born, female as second born and third born, the family is deemed not complete until she brings forth a male child, whereas if its the other way round its no issue..</div>
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i was forced to ask my dad, why is it that after sending your male and female children to school,after Nysc, the male child must go and hustle or start a life anywhere he likes while the female must continue anything she wants to do under your roof or she ll be termed a rebel?</div>
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and his answer simply was, at any stage we care for and protect our female children till they get married...i was so pissed off , to crown it all, a family member called him a few days after to give him a name of anyone looking for job and its a federal job ooo, and this man knows that i don waka tire in search of job o, but my dad didn't think twice before mentioning my brother's name and he later said to me i could have mentioned your name but its Abuja and its only a boy that can go that far, i just told him, consider yourself on hunger strike, i ain't cooking for you today....lol<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-41873011410040298742015-07-02T03:45:00.001-07:002015-07-02T03:45:45.999-07:00PICTURE THIS....<p dir="ltr">Hello LD readers, do you believe this? Mz Geneiveve Nnaji posted this on instagram some hours ago, well i agree to an extent though...</p>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;">Yaay... Goodmorning ,my beautifuls, Happy new month, its my prayer that July will be good to each and everyone of us, it will bring us all love, joy, hapiness and promotion In jesus name, its the second half of the year already, 2015 is gradually running to an end...</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"> Have you ever <span style="line-height: 21px;">noticed that when you pay attention and stay grateful for the little things in your life, most things seem to go well? Like when you are thankful for Life,for your going out and coming in, for those things you just see as normal and regular, other amazing things begin to fall in place</span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="line-height: 21px;">Even in the face of problems and challenges, be thankful, it works wonders, it makes you be at peace with yourself and with God and then it keeps you sane, so instead of complaining and </span></span><span style="line-height: 21px;">whining</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="line-height: 21px;"> in that situation, just give thanks to God, even we as humans, if we are praised for the little things we do for people, we will be challenged to do more, not to talk of God.</span></span></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-80551576102544480132015-06-30T05:50:00.003-07:002015-06-30T06:34:51.080-07:0015 unspoken rules of courtesy that everyone should adhere to!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Times are changing. A lot of the rules in our society, that were once very rigid, are now something that we hardly pay heed. But while some rules and regulations on what might be considered as good behavior are obsolete now; there still exists a bunch of unspoken ones that one needs to adhere to.</span></div>
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Hello Lovely LD fam, good morning sweethearts, Happy new week, How was your weekend, mine was awesome, you remember i said my brother was getting married this month, last Saturday was the D-day, i enjoyed myself, as i got to see people i have not seen in years and all of them be looking at me and saying, you are all grown now...lol, i had so much fun, as i even participated in the catching of the Bride's bouquet though i didn't catch, Sunday was beautiful too, it was mid-year thanksgiving and i enjoyed the service, all in all, my Weekend was glam.<div>
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And then, i thought to myself again, one of the most important factors are misplaced priority, when choosing a spouse i believe it is a lifetime decision and one has to be very careful about it, but i realised that so many people marry for the wrong reasons, this is what brought about this post, let's discuss, as a single lady or guy, WHAT DO YOU LOOK OUT FOR IN A SPOUSE? i mean ok , the person i want to marry must have this and this, you don't have to tell us all, just tell us the important ones,what that spouse of yours must have , that if not its no no<br />
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For me my man must be tuned to God, he must know God and have A solid relationship with God, then he must be Intelligent and he must Cherish me and also be a responsible Young man, so over to you, What do you look out for in a Spouse, or if you are married, what was the attraction, why did you marry that your partner???...Let's discuss in the comment section people</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-69014096478347731742015-06-25T03:10:00.001-07:002015-06-25T03:10:12.492-07:00How do you deal?<p dir="ltr">Hello my lovely LD fam,good morning, how is the week going, gradually i am begining to understand and see life from a different point of view and all this understandings are making me not to be able to drag anything with anyone or struggle for anything because at the end of the day, all is vanity also i am always thankful for every minute of life, what is money without happiness, what is comfort without peace of mind???...so dearies even with that little, if you have peace of mind, don't drag what your hands can't reach, just be patient and it will all make sense</p>
<p dir="ltr">  On a second note, how many of us have that shoe, cloth or underwear that you like so much, despite the fact that its old, you can't just let go  of it, i do, i have this pair of sandals that i love so much and i feel comfortable wearing it, despite the fact that the sole is gradually splitting into two, i am still rocking it and i would still continue to rock it till it finally cuts into two...lol...</p>
<p dir="ltr">  Now to the point of today's post, hoe do you deal with a stubborn headed friend, someone who does not take other people's opinion, someone that believes she is always right, even though every person around her thinks she is wrong, how do you deal with such person in love?</p>
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<p dir="ltr">  I have come to understand that Life is a misery, today its going right and tommorrow its turning left, You never know what to expect from life,until you go through life daily,so the quote below truly describes life</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get-Forest Gump</b></p>
<p dir="ltr">  But then again, i discovered that life can be likened to a box of chocolates too on many other level, so below is what i discovered after my research</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life</b> is like a box of chocolates, each piece is different but it takes them all to complete the package. Challenges, struggles, happy moments, joyful moments, moments of loss and all moments in life can be different but it takes them all to make life complete</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life </b>is like a box of chocolates, if it is empty, it makes everyone sad. If life is uneventful and unexciting and there are no different moments, then it makes everyone sad</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life </b>is like a box of chocolates,if you only try the ones you like, you ll never know how great something new can be. If you fail to try out new things and explore Life, then you will never know how sweet life can be</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life</b> is like a box of chocolates, the sweetest thing you can do is enjoy them. Enjoying life and taking whatever life throws at you calmly and seeking solution is the best way to enjoy life.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life </b>is like a box of chocolates, some can be very sweet while some can leave a sour taste in your mouth.Life can be very sweet attimes and can be the other way round at other times, but above all learn to enjoy life</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life </b>is like a box of chocolates, you get used up and thrown away</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Life </b>is like a box of chocolates, its messy and makes you get your hand dirty</p>
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Hello my beautifuls, yes i know i have not been consistent on blogsville lately, power supply has been terrible and then i have been a bit lazy lately, am sorry dearies, and i am wishing you a very aazing and fruitful week ahead<br />
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Yes, i am excited about today's post, one of the things i am most thankful for is been a woman,yes the bible says we are the weaker vessels but in reality we are stronger than the strongest, if you are a woman and you know how to use your power of being a woman well, i believe you can get anything done because if we set our hearts to do anything, we always get it done<br />
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Believe me if you are talking right and your words brings intelligence and the best out of your man,his heart will always long after you because he feels happy and real in your presence, your conversation should make a dark day bright in your man's life,Male egos are fragile don't use your words to tear your man apart, but use it to make him appreciate you more, use your words to make yourself his first point of call when he needs to talk to someone, have you seen some husbands who cannot tell their wives their worries? that because he feels she is not intelligent enough to handle whatever he has to say,or she will tell him how stupid he is, but convince the man in your life that he can always talk to you by using good words to season his life, let your words melt his heart and his defenses, let your words be constructive and not destructive, remember for every negative thing you have to say, there is another woman who knows the use of her power as a woman, and who will whisper sweet things in your man's ear, use your mouth to make your world with your man look sweet and be a gift to that man, its amazing how we will do anything to make the man in how lives feel loved yet we ignore this aspect that works wonder, minister deeply into that man beautifuls!<br />
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Hello LD fam, greetings to everyone, how is your weekend going? am sorry i went away for too long, blame it on epileptic power supply, how have been managing to keep my phone on is great miracle, i missed this space, i felt like a part of me was missing each day i don"t get to put a post up.<br />
On today's topic, I read something weird in the punch today, a certain study concluded that men spend more time Gossiping than women, how can that be?<br />
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Hello lovely LD Fam, happy mid week, you know sometime last week i met someone who said something that really strucked me, the person said, i know one can not always lack forever, you cannot be poor forever, because their will be a point in your life when you will be bouyant, there will be an opportunity for you to be great and do ex[loits, the problem is just that some of us are always blind to our opportunities, so dearies always look out for your opportunity to be great Today on inspiration wednesday, lets look at the pencil motivation, read and be inspired;<br />
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Hello beautiful people, how is your week going?? Remember last week we talked about temperament in personality Tuesday and i love the discussion we had, God bless you all</div>
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Today lets talk about Self esteem, while i was growing up and even up to recently i was battling with low self esteem, i just use to feel everyone is better than i am, but just recently i got transformed from it all thanks to one wonderful person in my life, well low self esteem is when one is always feeling insignificant or less important, it could be a dream killer and it makes you feel less human, it could be caused by what you believe about yourself, It could be as a result of experiences i.e what you saw, heard or experienced earlier in life, it could also be as a result of neglect, abuse, failing to meet parental or peer group standards and lack of warmth, affection or family love</div>
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Low self-esteem is a dream killer, even though you know that you can be so much more, deep down low self esteem will make you have a nagging feeling that you are not worthy of greatness, accolade,pure joy or happiness, try the above mentioned point to kill that low self esteem and thank me later...have a nice day beautifuls!</div>
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Hello my people, *kneels down* am sorry for not putting up love the greatest of all 2 up yesterday as promised, i went to an owanbe, it was a wedding and i was enjoying the groove of the new bride and groom, that i could not type the post, because i was too excited, i can't wait for my big day too, it was an exciting experience mehn, well next Sunday by God's grace the post will be up, hope my apology is accepted?</div>
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Red flags are violations of proper dating etiquette and standards. Everyone dating should protect their hearts and minds from those looking to abuse them. Everyone wants love, and everyone deserves love. No one, however, deserves to be abused.</div>
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These six red flags below indicate things to watch out for when you’re dating someone. If someone is currently treating you this way or starts to treat you in any of these ways in the future, RUN! Don’t look back!</div>
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1. <b>They</b> <b>Want</b> <b>to</b> <b>Change</b> </div>
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You Have you only been dating for a short period of time and they are already telling you they hate your life-long friends? That is a HUGE red flag! Have they already been encouraging you to move in with them, or worse yet, move out from where you’re currently living with family, friends, or your own apartment to a place they feel will be more fitting, alone? Do they complain about the way you do your hair, what clothes you wear, and try to watch yourevery move? Do they laugh at your dreams and goals telling you that they are stupid or that you should focus on something else?You, my friend, are dating a control freak, and you should run as fast as you can! Control freaks don’t really love you or accept you the way you are. They simply want you to fit the narrative of what they feel the perfect partner is for them. They want someone they can watch and break down. Life is too short to live it the way someone else thinks you should live it.</div>
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2. <b>Some</b> <b>of</b> <b>Their</b> <b>Habits</b> <b>Are</b> <b>Questionable</b><br />
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Does your significant other drink too often or go out too much? Do they not even invite you when they go out? Do they become a completely different person when they do drink? Do they scare you? Do they become sexually coercive or hit on other men/women when they are drunk? Do they do drugs?If your significant other has habits thatare questionable, you should break up with them as quickly as possible and move on. Staying in the relationship can lead to abuse or trouble with the law, and no one wants that.</div>
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3. <b>They</b> <b>Are</b> <b>Abusive</b></div>
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Unless it’s in physical self-defense, there is never a good reason to hit someone else. It doesn’t matter if they cheated, lied, or deceived you in any way. Abuse is wrong. This is the biggest and most obvious red flag. If your significant other is being sexually coercive, and then trying to make it up to you with gifts and kind words, that doesn’t mean you’re not being abused.That’s how an abuser keeps the abused around, by messing with them emotionally and psychologically.If your significant other is abusing you,making you cover yourself so no one sees bruises, or is telling you to not tell anyone about their abuse, whether it is sexual, physical, or emotional, you should run. Period. Again, there is never a good excuse for abusive behavior.</div>
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4. <b>You</b> <b>Are</b> <b>A</b> <b>Secret</b></div>
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Are you in a secret relationship? Are you always with your significant other but they refuse to introduce you to their friends and family, and if they do, do they just call you a friend? Have you talked to them about it and they’ve done nothing to rectify the matter? Is your significant other a flake?You’re being used. So, the question is, are you okay with being used by someone who treats you like a dirty secret and less of a human being? I don’t think so. Also, imagine how many other people your significant other has lied to in the same way? You may not be the only secret boyfriend/girlfriend. They may have a husband/wife on the side. Why settle for less than what you deserve? Dump your secret lover and move on to someone who is proud to say that you are all theirs!</div>
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5. <b>You</b> <b>Feel</b> <b>Worse</b> <b>About</b> <b>Yourself</b> </div>
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In The Relationship Are you planning out all the dates? Do you go out of your way to make time for them and they always have something else going on or don’t prioritize you in the same way? Do you feel alone in your relationship, as if you’re in a relationship with yourself?If you feel sad when you think about the relationship or are wondering why it’s not going the way you would like, then that’s a sign that it’s time to move on. You deserve someone who is willing to move mountains to make you feel special and make time for you.</div>
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6. <b>Your Family Doesn’t Approve of The Relationship</b></div>
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Sometimes family members can see when someone is wrong for you before you even know yourself. Sometimes family members can be wrong, as well, but they are always worth listening to. Your immediate family members love you more than anyone else, and want to see you happy. They don’t tell you they dislike your significant other to be spiteful or rude. They do it because they know how special you are and what you deserve. Sometimes what you deserve is better.It’s always nice to know someone identifies with you or that you can tell them your deepest, darkest secrets, but that’s not all there is to life! And, let’s face it, who doesn’t appreciate a good cuddle? But, that’s no excuse to ignore warning signs. If you really need someone to cuddle with, go buy a pet! They are more loyal than a person, and they won’t wake up one day and tell you they no longer want to be with you.</div>
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There’s always something new we can learn on our own about ourselves, and while relationships can be great, it’s also a wonderful thing to be able to spend time alone and enjoy being single!</div>
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<span style="font-family: sans-serif;">SOURCE:Nwdaily.com</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-62533442609697994192015-06-12T01:25:00.002-07:002015-06-12T01:25:54.997-07:00Discussion Friday...cheap or brave?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Hello my lovely people, TGIF mhen, lets get straight to the point, see the pic below? what do you think, do you think the lady is brave or you think this is cheap, holla at the comment section, i can't wait to hear your opinion</div>
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For me,i don't support this and i pray this trend does not continue or the world will be in trouble, even the bible says <b>HE</b> <b>who finds a wife</b>....its the man duty to Find not the ladies, so how can women now be the one proposing??? For me this is cheap mehn, we are worth more than this, we are God's treasure thats why God said Husbands should love their wives as Christ loves the church, how did Christ love the church? He gave his life For it, so we are that important to God.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-70021925921409328622015-06-11T01:29:00.001-07:002015-06-11T01:29:40.633-07:00BEFORE YOU BLOW THAT HORN!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello dearest LD Fam, good morning, well Thursdays are a reminder that Friday is close by right? and the weekend is close by, well for now am not always excited about weekends because i work everyday of the week except Sundays at times, but above all am thankful for unexplainable grace that is evident in my life and for all the amazing people in my life who make life worth living and you with that two eyes reading this , yes you, you are part of them, thank you so much for always stopping by to read, you don't know how important your coming here to read and leaving a comment is to me, God bless you all<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br /> Today i want to talk of one thing that annoys me most on Nigerian roads, its the Horn, the Horn has been greatly abused by Nigerian Car users, i don't know if its like that in other parts of the world o, but am sure Cherri, mami Tibs and others can tell us if it is, but in this Nigeria part of the things Horns are used for are:<br />
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<b>To say Hello</b><br />
when they see someone that they know on the road driving by, to say hello or greet the person, you just hear them blow their Horn pon pon pon....so annoying , am my dad does this attimes too<br />
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<b>To call Passengers</b><br />
All this commercial drivers are the most annoying, when they want to call passengers, they just blow the Horn anyhow<br />
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<b>To make traffic lights change from green to red</b><br />
instead of them to be calm and patient for the traffic lights to change, they would just start blowing their horn as if it can change the traffic light...smh...<br />
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<b>To insult or cuss out someone</b><br />
<b> </b>when they are angry maybe about the way someone drove carelessly and they want to cuss the person out, they blow that horn to call the person's attention before dishing the insults...oloshi or whatever out...lol<br />
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<b>To remind people of common sense in traffic</b><br />
If you don't move your car fast in heavy traffic, the Horn is there to remind you to move fast or you will receive the insult of your life<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17683634935318984836noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829719234694909335.post-61569904719906297272015-06-10T11:42:00.001-07:002015-06-10T11:42:31.593-07:00Inspiration Wednesday-Self control<p dir="ltr">Hello dearest LD fam, how was your day???am so sorry inspiration wednesday is coming in late, jibbyks had to travel and go get somethings done and i was exhausted when i got back<br>
Well today i learnt that if you don't have self control then you can never suceed in life, thats why when i saw the pic below on instagram, i could totally relate to it, its so true...what do you think?</p>
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