How do you deal?

Hello my lovely LD fam,good morning, how is the week going, gradually i am begining to understand and see life from a different point of view and all this understandings are making me not to be able to drag anything with anyone or struggle for anything because at the end of the day, all is vanity also i am always thankful for every minute of life, what is money without happiness, what is comfort without peace of mind???...so dearies even with that little, if you have peace of mind, don't drag what your hands can't reach, just be patient and it will all make sense

  On a second note, how many of us have that shoe, cloth or underwear that you like so much, despite the fact that its old, you can't just let go  of it, i do, i have this pair of sandals that i love so much and i feel comfortable wearing it, despite the fact that the sole is gradually splitting into two, i am still rocking it and i would still continue to rock it till it finally cuts into two...lol...

  Now to the point of today's post, hoe do you deal with a stubborn headed friend, someone who does not take other people's opinion, someone that believes she is always right, even though every person around her thinks she is wrong, how do you deal with such person in love?

Inspiration Wednesday- I can't

  Hello my darling LD fam, happy mid week, its another edition

 of inspiration Wednesday, read and be inspired.

I was the quintessential "I can't" child -- the poster child for the

 Advancement of the word "can't."

Whatever my mother told or asked me to do was immediately

 followed by my whining, "I caaaaan't." Consequently, very few

 tasks or goals that I set out to accomplished were ever completed.

One evening, my mother called me into the family room where she

 was reading an article in the TV Guide. On the cover was a photo

 of Marlo Thomas, currently starring in the popular sitcom, That Girl.

 Mother knew that the show was one of my favorites and Marlo one 

of my show biz idols.

INSPIRATION WEDNEDNESDAY- YOU ARE THE ARCHITECT OF YOUR LIFE

Hello lovely people, good morning, i have so much of on my plate lately, but
 because i love this blog and you wonderful readers, i just have to squeeze out
time for the blog, thanks for all your wonderful comments on yesterday's post,
 i wish i could reply each and every of your comment but Nepa messed up again,
 i could not even do my blog round, if i have a one day chance to be the presiden
t of Nigeria, the first thing i would most definitely tackle is power supply, mhen its
 crazy, in my area now what they do is two days on and 5 days off, its really annoying
 because that two days sef na on and off, one i can't enjoy it,IBPHC really sucks!

 yeah its another Wednesday, and its another edition of inspiration Wednesday, you
know how we do this, every Wednesday we talk about something to better our life
 and inspire someone

  Today's post was inspired by what my principal in Secondary school use to say and
 what formed part of who i am today, while in secondary school, my principal use to
 make us chant this mantra

My Life is in my hand
 I am the Architect of my life

INSPIRATION WEDNESDAY- FAILURE IS FEEDBACK

  Hello my beautiful besties, yes! *bats eyelashes*, you all are my besties because
 i feel blessed sharing my thoughts with you guys. so today on inspiration Wednesday
 we want to talk about failure, a lot of us are afraid of failure but i don't know if
 you have heard that Life is a risk, Never be afraid to Fail, the fear of failure often
 blindfolds us and it scares us from trying out new things,for example i have
considered opening this blog since last year but the fear of who will read my post?
 how will i be able to finance internet connections and all sort stopped me for like
 5 months, but since i have started it has been all joy thanks to you all but sometimes
 we need to fail before we can succeed.
  For example lets talk about BILL GATES, the richest man in the world and
owner of Microsoft

Net Worth $72,700,000,000
Before being the richest person in the world and owning Xanadu 2.0
 (the ‘Bill Gates House’), a computerized residence with real-time
adjustable temperature, music and lightening for each pin-wearing guest,
 Bill Gates was a failing entrepreneur.

The Failure

His first company was Traf-O-Data,
The company’s product was the Traf-O-Data 8008, a device which
could read traffic tapes and process the data. They first tried to sell the
 processing service to the local County, but their first demo failed
 because the machine ‘didn’t work’, recalled Gates.

The Lesson

His partner, Paull Allen, summarised the experience for exactly what it was:
 ‘Even though Traf-O-Data wasn’t a roaring success, it was seminal in
 preparing us to make Microsoft’s first product a couple of years later’
And happily, that’s exactly what they did. They kept on going and Microsoft
 became the largest personal-computer software company in the world. But it’s
 still nice to know that even the richest philanthropist in the world can make
 business blunders.

  Abraham Lincoln failed all his classes in high school except drama, but today he
 is one of the greatest people in the World because he didn't capitalize on his
failures but he used it as a stepping stone for his success

 Sometimes failing helps us re-evaluate and strategise well, it goes to show that if
 you try harder or make some changes, you will surely suceed, Never be afraid
 to fail because failure is feedback .