MISS INDEPENDENT Vs MISS DEPENDENT

Hello Fam, how is everyone doing this morning? do have a lovely day ahead,
 here is wishing everyone traveling to NYSC camp today a safe journey, do be
 careful and make sure to make friends as you are traveling it helps to kill anxiety
 and you get to be more informed, but above all shine your eyes ooo especially if
 you are going through Onitsha, my experience at Onitsha while i was going for my
Nysc was a bad one.



  Well,there is this brouhaha i have been reading on SDK about what men want,
some people are of the school of thought that men want independent women,
who have their own jobs and can take care of themselves while other people
 are of the school of thought that men want women that will depend on them
 because of their Ego. there have been many stories to back this two school of
 thought but if you ask me:

MY OPINION;
 No one likes to be burdened, No one wants a liability for a wife or Girlfriend,
 if a lady is too demanding, it diminishes the man's love and respect for the lady,
 spending your own money is the sweetest thing and it commands respect, so for
 some reasons i prefer to be miss independent but then again because of  the Ego
 men have, and because a man has to be responsible as the head, sometimes
you just have to leave some things for the men too to handle, yes, a lady has to
be independent, you have to have your source of income and pay your bills
 but a lady must not form MACHO, you must not be too independent if not
you will crush your man's Ego.
what's your Opinion on this? Miss independent or miss dependent??