Tuesday, November 3, 2015

The Demon called money!

Hello, happy new  month,  it's really been a while,  thanks to everyone who checked while I was away,  thanks for all the love notes,  chats and mails,  I feel really honoured,  yes,  the year is almost running to an end and am so glad because it's really a long and amazing year for me,  I might not be where I want to be yet but then I have reasons to be thankful while I hope for the better, what about you, how has the year been for you?????     
                    Let's get straight to the post, notice I called money a demon?  Well it might not be a demon in every sense of it,  but then,  money is something you can't do without but iit is. What you have too that if you are not careful can destroy one's life. Even the Bible says money is the root of all evil, in everything in life moderacy is key,  yes,  we all work to make money to make living comfortable for us but then when you have excessive love for money,  then it is that money that destroy such individual

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Monday, September 7, 2015

5 Golden rules to an hitch free life

Hello Dearies, good morning, happy new week, i pray this week brings unspeakable joy and blessings to you in Jesus name. I have come to understand, that most of the issues we have in life are interpersonal issues,when you don't get on well with your friends, co-worker or even your spouse, it all leads to frustration, depression and bitterness. So to start your week I thought to share this 5 rules that can enhance your interpersonal relationship and help you to live and hitch free life

Rule1: Tame Your Tongue
This rule is really important for anyone that wants to be successful in life, mind what you say, control your tongue anand do not let your tongue control you, even the bible advise us to be quick to listen and be slow to speak, use your tongue to bring things to life not to murder them, if one is really disciplined with one's mouth, then one can really lead an hitch free life to an extent

Wednesday, September 2, 2015


 Yaay! am so happy to be back, clearing cobwebs, my sweethearts, i am sorry, no am sorry is not enough but i am really sorry, life has been going on a fast track for me, i have had a lot on my plate lately that i feel 24hours is not enough, Msc, new job e.t.c but i promise am back for real, i will try as much as possible not to neglect this space and then i have learnt, self discipline is key, one cannot achieve anything without it, enough of me already, how is everyone?? i know have missed a lot and i really will catch up, a big thanks to everyone that checked on me and encouraged me, before i write an epistle, let's go straight to the post.
  Do you know that it is not perfect make up, good cloth, or good body structure e.t.c that makes one beautiful, yes those physical things add up, they make you look good, but they are not true definition of beauty, if you wrap a delicious chocolate in a dirty and unattractive wrapper, no one will take a look at it not to talk of opening it, thats the importance of looking good on the outside, because it serves as the point of attraction.

Thursday, July 30, 2015

10 factors that scare Nigerian men away from marriage

Hello beautiful people, *pops collar, i know ya all went to know where and what i have been up to, well in subsequent post i will talk about it, so, it is a general believe that Nigerian men shy away from marriage, when i read this reasons i knew i had to share, i totally i agree with no2 ,3,7,8,10, lets talk in the comments section, what do you think?

So, what are those factors that scare Nigerian men away from marriage? We have tried to compile some reasons that make most men feel jittery to converse on ‘Marriage’ as topic, feel free to add yours if not in our list.

1. No wife materials: Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage. If this is the case, time of quality search can help heal the wound of such man.

2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past: Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole. But, this might not be the fault of women as promiscuity is not an exclusive act than can be carried out without the consent of either gender.

3. Nigeria weddings are expensive: In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. As of last year, the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N500,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost. For most people, especially in this economy, that’s a lot of money. But all we advise is that men should try and cut their coat according to their material

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Inspiration Wednesday- Character traits of sucessful people

Where do i start apologizing from??? No reason i just stopped coming around, hello people Good morning, Happy mid week, how is everyone doing??? how has blogsville been in my absence, am going round as soon as i drop this post, to see things myself, shoutout to everyone Who drops by, i can't begin to mention all your names, but i know God ll best you all abundantly.

Every one dreams and longs to be sucessful, but not everyone has what it takes to be sucessful, sucessful people have the most horrible stories of failure and downfall in life, but they have certain character traits that makes them standout, which is what we are going to talk about today, read and be inspired!