Friday, May 29, 2015


On May 29, Muhammadu Buhari will take office as President of Nigeria. Expectations are high as most Nigerians expect the coming government to wave a magic wand and make all their problems disappear. The Buhari campaign which ran on a ‘CHANGE’ mantra made numerous promises to Nigerians during the campaign.
Buhari’s campaign promises as presented by Vanguard
On Politics and Governance:
I, Muhammadu Buhari, believe that our politics is broken. Our nation urgently needs fundamental political reform and improvement in governance more transparency and accountable. If you nominate me in December, 2014 and elect me in February 2015, my administration will:
1. Initiate action to amend the Nigerian Constitution with a view to devolving powers, duties, and responsibilities to states in order to entrench true Federalism and the Federal spirit;
2. Strengthen INEC to reduce, if possible, eliminate electoral malpractices in Nigerian’s political life;
3. Attract the best and brightest of our sons and daughters into our politics and public service by aggressive recruitment of private sector people, academics, and professionals within
Nigeria and in the Diaspora through internships, fellowships, executive appointments, and special nomination to contest elective offices;

Happy democracy day!!!

Hello my lovely LD fam, TGIF! Happy democracy day ! Well this is going to be a very short post , am excited that the very much anticipated May 29 handing over is here, power is definately going to change hands, if you know me well, you would know am a strong supporter of GEJ, because i know he has a good heart though i have come to understand that when it comes to leadership you have to be as hard as stone, which is where i think GEJ missed it, he was too soft, though with good intentions, well he was and is still someone i strogly admire.

Thursday, May 28, 2015


Without wasting much time, I will get right to the point. I am going to give you 10 personality attributes that men love to see in the women they fall headover heels in love with. Men are attracted to women that are:

pics source: goggle

1. Intelligent –This attribute ranks veryhigh, after men have gotten past your looks. Men love women that are smart, opinionated, and articulate. Most enjoyspeaking to women who have their own point of view on subjects and are passionate in discussing affairs of the day. Men love to debate, and if you canmake them believe, or at least respect, your point of view, then you have a man that will see you as an equal, and not as an ornament to be displayed to the rest of the world until the next bestornament comes his way.

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Inspiration Wednesday- 10 Quotes that will change your way of living

 Hello lovely LD fam, am so sorry, i know i have been gone for too long, but blame it on Nigeria's situation, light no dey, fuel sef no dey to put Gen on, i have been charging my phone with Car charger for about 3 days before yesterday, am so sorry, how is everyone doing????  its Inspiration Wednesday again *yaay* relax, read an let it make impact...

Saturday, May 23, 2015


Hello lovely LD fam, well when i woke up this morning and i thought of all the things happening in Nigeria and the world right now, i just felt like going back to bed, because i feel its only when one is sleeping that there is peace, and then i stumbled on this poem then i realise it totally describes everything, May God intervene on all this situations In jesus and enjoy and as a new feature to the blog too, i ll be bringing poems that covers anything about life every saturday, so please make it a date at life's diary, i love you all more than a fat kid loves candy*winks*

Wind whistling,
Snow glistening,
We try not to,
But we're all listening.

Loud screams,
Bad dreams,
It's very far,
But close it seems.

Sad day,
Lost our way,
All we can do,
Is simply pray.

Innocence gone,
Life no longer long,
We may not know,
But we're all doing wrong.

Joy lost,
The Holocaust,
We look to see,
Hearts covered in frost.

Wars fought,
Sins taught,
Making mistakes,
Hoping not to be caught.

Not taking blame,
Pushing for fame,
As advanced as we are,
We're still all untamed.

Too much pride,
Needing a guide,
We will deny it,
But behind lies we hide.

Hurting others,
Betraying brother,
Many forgetting,
To appreciate mothers.

Lies are fed,
Filling heart and head,
Through all of these years,
Innocent blood has been shed.

Children abandoned,
Lonely and stranded,
We're all wasting the life
That we have been handed.

Taking from the poor,
We're loving no more,
Fight to be free,
End up starting a war.

People starting fights,
No longer enjoying the sights,
While mere mortals are taking
Our God given rights.

Soldiers killed,
Void can't be filled,
Pay close attention,
For pure souls have been tilled.

Need to find peace,
Work together like geese,
But greatest of all,
The hate needs to cease.

Michaela Remmel

Thursday, May 21, 2015


YAAY!!!! hello dearest LD fam, am so excited today, today is someone
 dearest to me's birthday, yes today is my blog mentor's birthday, when
 you talk of beauty with brain , yes thats her, today is Ugo Patience Ukam
 of the beautiful eagle blog's birthday. *drumrolls*

she was the first person that knew of the pregnancy of this blog and 
she helped me grow it with love, she truly has a very beautiful heart 
like her face, God bless you Ugo

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Inspiration Wednesday- I can't

  Hello my darling LD fam, happy mid week, its another edition
 of inspiration Wednesday, read and be inspired.

I was the quintessential "I can't" child -- the poster child for the
 Advancement of the word "can't."

Whatever my mother told or asked me to do was immediately
 followed by my whining, "I caaaaan't." Consequently, very few
 tasks or goals that I set out to accomplished were ever completed.

One evening, my mother called me into the family room where she
 was reading an article in the TV Guide. On the cover was a photo
 of Marlo Thomas, currently starring in the popular sitcom, That Girl.
 Mother knew that the show was one of my favorites and Marlo one 
of my show biz idols.

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

The Genotype issue

Hello dearest LD Fam, how are you doing today, well am glad 
its another beautiful day, and guess what? the lord has been good
 to me, this month has been amazing so far, am happy about that.
 Well i really wish today's post will be interactive because its a 
very important issue

Well there was this friend of mine long ago, who started dating this
 guy, and believe me there love seem perfect, though in every
 relationship there are ups and downs, but this two always disagree
 to agree,i think the guy at some point the guy went for tests in

Monday, May 18, 2015

10 types of men ladies should avoid

Hello dearest LD fam, happy new week, hope you have a blessed and
 fulfill week ahead, pardon me for the unannounced break i took during
 the weekend, i just really had to clear my mind of some things, how is
 everyone doing? well we all are doing an ultimate search for something
 in our love and relationship life as ladies right??? every lady lady is
searching for Mr right, so today i just thought to share 10 types of men
 we do not like and that we must stay away from, so for the ladies
 please take note and the men too can take note so that they can adjust,
 the rate of failed marriages are too alarming to ignore the signs  *winks*

The Liar:
 He takes every slight opportunity to lie, he lies to people in your presence
 without flinching and when he lies, you can almost believe him use he
 is good at it, run far away from him

The Bad boy
At one time or another, every girl has a thing for the guy
 who just doesn’t play by the rules. He’s perpetually angry, 
acts like a tough guy and looks damn good while doing it. 
But the juvenile attraction to the bad boys of our youth can
 quickly fade when rebellion turns into recklessness. The bad
 boys will just break your heart... or the law. And these rebels 
without a clue top the list of types of men to avoid on the dating scene.

Friday, May 15, 2015


 Hello sweethearts, dearest LD fam, good morning, TGIF! mhen it been
 a long week and so many things have happened in the cause of this week,
 but above all, God has been faithful, *kneels down* tanks so much for
your love, care and prayers, i feel honored to be a part of this beautiful
 family of love, well as to the interview and exam, well, all turned out
 beautiful, shout out to all the ex Oouites in the house,
 *side eyes to lee boo*, oou delayed us for 1 hour 35 minutes, what
was scheduled for 10 started around 11:40 but they shocked me sha,
 No exam, no interview, you just enter show your credentials and the

Wednesday, May 13, 2015


Hello LD fam,how is everyone doing, a big thanks to Cherri for her
 prayers, i woke up stronger than yesterday, thanks so much ma'am, 
but please i still need more of the prayers as tomorrow is the D day
 for my masters Exam and interview, and its bin long i don leave
 school, i hope the lil studying i ll do as soon as i drop this post, 
will help, please bvs pray for jibbyks ooo,so in the spirit of exams its inspiration Wednesday again*dancing* so relax, read and be inspired!
see m colourful face
Struggle! Why? how many people like struggling- why cant things just be easy!
Here is a story of a butterfly.

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared

, he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force 
its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. 

It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther.

 Then the man decided to help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors
 and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then
 emerged easily. But it had a swollen body (or head) and small, shriveled wings. 

Tuesday, May 12, 2015


  Hello my lovely people, JONWO'S SIGNATURE is hosting a giveaway, she is a friend who just started a fashion retail business, she sells beautiful, colourful and amazing clothings of different sizes and designs, so she is offering to give away 5 beautifulbags out, 
see the bags below

all you have to do is add her up on bbm-2B1C3E0B and do as in the pic below
please BVs be quick as she is offering to give the first 5 people and i want at least one bv to win out of the 5 bags. good luck people and note guys too can enter for this giveaway.


     Hello lovely people,  how are you doing today? well am not fine, as am
 feeling very sick, but then again , i have to go to work and i have to be 
here too, but as soon as i put up this post, i will take some a lil rest, so i 
was talking to one of my bae  this morning and while talking sha, we talked
 about a guy dats been on her case for long, and she said he has been 
showing that he loves her, and thats the inspiration for this post, signs to
 show he is in love with you:

  He is Proud to show you off; you know sometimes in a relationship,
  especially if the relationship is not based on love, the guy just tries
 all his best to hide the babe from everyone, his friends and family 
members, thats a big sign the babe is a side chick and maybe they have
 already been introduced to the main babe, if he loves you, he
 would be proud to show you off to the world and he would always tell
 everyone that cares to listen about you and about how happy you make him feel.

Monday, May 11, 2015


      Hello lovely people, how was your weekend??? here is a little motivation
 for you as you start your week, do have a blessed week ahead.
 Winning is a word that is exciting to hear and great to be associated with 
but only a few people ever taste it. Every person want to be associated with
 a winner(champion). 

    People like stars are celebrated in society because they have emerged
 'winners' in there respective field. Loosers are shunned and most times loosing
 is associated with shame. no wonder most people when they loose they cant 
withhold tears.

  There isn't any big difference therefor between a winner and a looser. Lets look
 at two football teams. They all have equal number of players, had the same period
 in which to prepare, have same chances of scoring but only one team will be crowned. 

Sunday, May 10, 2015

Faith without works is Dead

 Hello my lovely sweethearts, today am feeling very lazy, i guess am going
 to be home all day, may God help me, happy Sunday my people and do 
have a lovely day ahead.

  Today we are going to be talking about Faith and Works, Faith is one of
 the Christian principles that is so dear to my heart, as many times i have used
 it and it has worked for me, but then i feel some people have a misconception
about faith, yes, i know faith is believing the unbelievable but how do you have
 faith that something will happen without working towards it?

Saturday, May 9, 2015

CELEBRITY POST- Congrats to blogger Sisiyemmie and hubby bobo

Hello lovely people, ya all know blogger sisi yemmie right? but
You didn't know she was on a 9 months course right? I didn't know
 too, until i found the tweet below

30 Ways To Learn To Love yourself and be happy with the World 2

Hello lovely people, yeah you remember yesterday we started sharing
30 ways to love ourselves and be happy with the world right??? and 
yesterday i shared the first 15 so today i will be sharing 16-30, so relax
 and enjoy, if you didn't see 1-15 that i posted yesterday, you can check it here

16. Care about your appearance — not in a vain, superficial way. 

Care about how you look, so you can feel great when you leave the
 house. But, if you feel like wearing sweatpants and your hair in a bun
 to the grocery store once in a while, go do it.

17. Watch that movie or that Netflix series you’ve been meaning to see.

18. Be active. Exercising regularly releases endorphins and contributes to
 your level of happiness and will help you feel better about yourself.

19. Pick up a hobby. My roommates and I ordered paint-by-numbers 
from Amazon. It made me feel creative and allowed for some 
roommate bonding time.

Friday, May 8, 2015

30 Ways To Learn To Love Yourself And Be Happy With The World 1

Hello lovely people, TGIF, and do have a lovely weekend and remember to
come share with us on Monday, i read this Article on Elite daily and i thought to
 share with ya all, its really a long piece so i broke it into two, i would post the
 remaining part tomorrow enjoy!

  Many people (including me) speak about “self-love”: figure yourself out,
 love yourself before you get into a relationship… and so it goes. However,
 you only truly obtain self-love by having compassion for the self, so you can
appreciate and do considerate deeds for others.

Along my path to learn about myself and work on my own self-love, I discovered
several major truths that still resonate with me and support my personal effort.
I am a constant work in progress, as most of us are. To help you gain more perspective and have a foundation on which to begin your journey of self-love, here are 30 truths to remember:

1. Stop comparing yourself to others. People achieve success and fail at
 different rates.

2. You’re not as fat as you think. Besides, your body fat percentage has
 no bearing on what makes you a quality human being.

3. Exercise because it is good for your soul and not solely for your outward
experience. Appreciate your body and all the things it can do. Stop picking it
 apart — you will never achieve perfection.

4. Find something at which you excel. Maybe you are really amazing at working
with kids and you just don’t know it yet.

Thursday, May 7, 2015


Hello fam, Good morning, today is thursday and it is a day that reminds us that the weekend is around the corner and owanbe saturday is close by, its been really long i went to a party though i will be attending one soonest anyways

 Today is another feature of Love Thursday, remember if you have any issue you feel you want us to discuss on this feature you can send me a mail, ayanbajoajibike7957@gmail. com, you can read the first feature of Love Thursday here

 Different strokes for different folks, for some Ladies, they like their spouse to be very much older than them,because to those people older men are more matured and they offer more security while for some ladies they prefer there spouse to be within there Age range.


Comedian Bovi took to his instagram page yesterday to dish out the words of
 Advice below  to women and if you ask me i agree with him 100% 

Wednesday, May 6, 2015


Hello lovely people, good morning, i have so much of on my plate lately, but
 because i love this blog and you wonderful readers, i just have to squeeze out
time for the blog, thanks for all your wonderful comments on yesterday's post,
 i wish i could reply each and every of your comment but Nepa messed up again,
 i could not even do my blog round, if i have a one day chance to be the presiden
t of Nigeria, the first thing i would most definitely tackle is power supply, mhen its
 crazy, in my area now what they do is two days on and 5 days off, its really annoying
 because that two days sef na on and off, one i can't enjoy it,IBPHC really sucks!

 yeah its another Wednesday, and its another edition of inspiration Wednesday, you
know how we do this, every Wednesday we talk about something to better our life
 and inspire someone

  Today's post was inspired by what my principal in Secondary school use to say and
 what formed part of who i am today, while in secondary school, my principal use to
 make us chant this mantra

My Life is in my hand
 I am the Architect of my life

Tuesday, May 5, 2015


Hello Fam, how is everyone doing this morning? do have a lovely day ahead,
 here is wishing everyone traveling to NYSC camp today a safe journey, do be
 careful and make sure to make friends as you are traveling it helps to kill anxiety
 and you get to be more informed, but above all shine your eyes ooo especially if
 you are going through Onitsha, my experience at Onitsha while i was going for my
Nysc was a bad one.

Monday, May 4, 2015


Hello lovely people, Good morning, happy, Yesterday made this blog's two months Anniversary, i totally forgot, but here i am now, saying thank you to everyone that has ever stopped by, thanks so much, for all your awesome comments and your prayers, am saying a special thanks to Cherri, mhen she is amazing in every sense of it, the massive, support,prayers and encouragement and getting from her hen, May God reward her abundantly for me, well, well, well, am not in support of Abortion, but what do all these rescued women from Boko haram that are pregnant do, i even dread the though of them birthing those children,i prefer they abort the children jawe, May God help them

Before the advent of mobile phones in Nigeria, my dad gisted me that they use to use letters as means of communication, if i want to say something to my friend in ibadan and i am in lagos, i will have to write a letter and take it to the post office and it might even take days before the letter reaches my friend, while in some cases they don't even get the letter at all, or another method they use is some rich people have this table telephone powered by Nitel then,

 so people gather in such places and take turns to call their loved ones, but for people who don't  have this opportunity, they travel down to check on their loved ones,very stressful right??

Sunday, May 3, 2015


Hello,lovely people, Happy Sunday,  how are you doing??? am excited about this
 month of May, i don't know the reason, but i just feel good about this month and
again am so thankful for life, and for how God has been working wonders.

  Yes today is Immanuel Mavins birthday, he is a fellow blogger and a blog boo
 too, he blogs here, we at Life's diary are saying a very happy birthday to him,
may the lord bless and prosper his ways and may favor and mercy follow him
always,Age with grace dear and do send our cake to my mail, guess what people
Mavins is beautiful miss Genevieve Nnaji's  birthday mate, Happy birthday to her too
see the face behind that awesome blog

  And to my random thought, some times when we humans are in need of something
 and we turn to God to help us with it, but because he is an all knowing God, he
 might give us the thing right away or delay it a bit,  to do it at the best time for us,
 but because we are humans we get very impatient fast, and some people can be
very worst in their waiting time that they do what they are not suppose to do and
 there by lose that favour and blessing God has in stock for them
 Lemme say a short story to back this up, there was a certain man living in my
area while i was going to secondary school, i can remember that this man use to
 be very poor that, he has to push his bike every morning before the bike could
work so that he will use it to carry people and earn small money, av known him
to be like this for years, but later within one month this man bought two cars, i was
 surprised because i was not sure he even had a job, and then he established a shop
 for his wife outside there house, this man would put his Gen on every morning from
 afternoon till night, he was living in great affluence but 6 months after, his wife died
and the wife's family were like the man used the wife as the source of his wealth but
 not long the cries died down and life continued for this man, he married another wife,
 but dearly beloved this man died too barely 5 months after his wife, and guess what
 as rich as he was no kobo was found in his accounts when he died, the family members
 were begging from people in the area so that they can transport him to his village,
twas that bad, so it came to my mind that if God didn't want this man to be rich,
whatever he did wud not have worked out, i just believe that he was not patient
enough to receive the blessings, so it cost him his life, it is only God that maketh a
 man rich without sorrow, what do you think?

Friday, May 1, 2015


Hello lovely people, Good day! how did the holiday go today? well for me there
 was no holiday as i have been working since morning, anyways happy new month peeps,
 and thanks for been a part of life's diary,thanks for always stopping by this space and
 for all your lovely comments, God bless ya all plenty plenty, happy birthday month to
 all May born, we are sure going to celebrate together

 This new month it is my earnest desire that the Lord will bless you and your family,
 he will meet you at the point of your heart desires and you and your family shall not
 lack anything good In Jesus name,

 For me am expectant of greater blessings and promotions this month, and am
expecting my masters interview to go well too this month  by God's grace, what
 are your expectations for the month of May? Do share with us, thanks once again
 and have a lovely month ahead .