Monday, May 18, 2015

10 types of men ladies should avoid

Hello dearest LD fam, happy new week, hope you have a blessed and
 fulfill week ahead, pardon me for the unannounced break i took during
 the weekend, i just really had to clear my mind of some things, how is
 everyone doing? well we all are doing an ultimate search for something
 in our love and relationship life as ladies right??? every lady lady is
searching for Mr right, so today i just thought to share 10 types of men
 we do not like and that we must stay away from, so for the ladies
 please take note and the men too can take note so that they can adjust,
 the rate of failed marriages are too alarming to ignore the signs  *winks*

The Liar:
 He takes every slight opportunity to lie, he lies to people in your presence
 without flinching and when he lies, you can almost believe him use he
 is good at it, run far away from him

The Bad boy
At one time or another, every girl has a thing for the guy
 who just doesn’t play by the rules. He’s perpetually angry, 
acts like a tough guy and looks damn good while doing it. 
But the juvenile attraction to the bad boys of our youth can
 quickly fade when rebellion turns into recklessness. The bad
 boys will just break your heart... or the law. And these rebels 
without a clue top the list of types of men to avoid on the dating scene.

The lazy guy
You know the type. Video games, couch, raiding the refrigerator, 
repeat. This is the daily existence of the cute, quirky guy who you
 have a thing for, despite all of your girlfriends trying to convince 
you otherwise. If he has no hobbies, skills, or future aspirations outside
 of his living room, you know you’ve just encountered the attractive but 
exceedingly lazy underachiever.

The Mama's boy
For many women, a tightly-knit family bond is an important asset
 in any relationship. But there are certain men that may be knit just
 a little too tightly to a woman that they’ve bonded with through
 the years. If he must clear all plans with mother or constantly seeks
 her approval above all else, you may be dealing with the mama’s
 boy. Sure, familial bonds are important. Just ask Norman Bates.
 But most mama’s boys aren’t looking for a girlfriend. They’re 
looking for a girl who will cook, clean and be a wonderful 
mother... to them. No thanks!

The Cheater
It’s a sad fact of life that some men are apt to cheat on their wives
 and girlfriends, and avoiding the cheating type is almost impossible,
 unless we know of his duplicitous ways prior to pursuing a relationship.
 Well, blame it on overwhelming emotions, hope that things will 
change and plain ‘n’ simple poor judgment, women are taking back
 cheaters for second chances. But when forgiveness soon gives way 
to third, fourth and fifth chances, it should become clear that cheaters
 won’t change. Ladies, it’s time to let him go once and for all. Send the
 cheater packing and save the relationship that matters most - the
 relationship you have with yourself!

The Club guy
Oh, you all know what I mean here. This is the guy who can be
 found at any club in town, most nights or weekends of the week.
 He's incredibly hot, super sweet and dances like a dream. Guess
 what? He'll probably want to keep up this routine, even if you're
 dating him, regardless of what he says. Don't go to clubs and 
expect to find a keeper. Trust me! Most of these men who hang 
out at clubs all the time end up doing so well into their adult years.
 Ever wonder why all those men in bars that are 50 are still single? That's why!

The Bossy Guy
He may tell you all the sweet things you want to hear, call you when
 he says he will and is even honest about where he's at. He also doesn't
 cheat on you, but is he bossy? Does he tell you what to wear, how to
 wear your hair, what you should look like, or tell you what to do? 
He's the bossy guy, and these guys are often the kind to avoid. 
Many become controlling, or abusive. Date someone who lets
 you express yourself for you and doesn't try to boss you around

The Guy who does not like your family
I do not have a perfect family, and nobody does! Yet, if your guy
 consistently says he doesn't want to be around your family, refuses
 to attend events where they are present, or is generally rude to them,
 ditch him! He should love you for you, not your family, and he should
 respect you enough to treat them with kindness, regardless of how he feels.

The Dream Buster
This is the guy who is great in theory, but tells you that your dreams
 are unrealistic, silly, unreachable, or pointless. Any guy not willing 
to support your ambitions is one that isn't for you deary pie!

The Aggressive guy:
 He gets angry at every slight thing, he can be very violent and
 aggressive when Angry, he hits you at any slight mistake,
 my dear flee from such guy, you don't want to turn eye
 Sunday after wedding, do you?


  1. Hmmmmm one has to flee from these guys mehnnnn. For the single ladies out there jibbyks have spoken..

  2. The single ladies ous let's talk

  3. Everybody will see the handwriting on the wall. Do they value themselves enough to leave?

  4. hmmmmmmmmmmm. for una mind abi???? just watch out for 300 types of ladies man should Run/avoid on my blog.

  5. You just nailed it Jibbyks. Nice one

  6. You just nailed it Jibbyks. Nice one

  7. Well we learn something new daily. I'll be on the lookout for Immanuel's 300 types of ladies post!


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