Thursday, May 7, 2015

LOVE THURSDAY- AGE WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE

Hello fam, Good morning, today is thursday and it is a day that reminds us that the weekend is around the corner and owanbe saturday is close by, its been really long i went to a party though i will be attending one soonest anyways

 Today is another feature of Love Thursday, remember if you have any issue you feel you want us to discuss on this feature you can send me a mail, ayanbajoajibike7957@gmail. com, you can read the first feature of Love Thursday here

 Different strokes for different folks, for some Ladies, they like their spouse to be very much older than them,because to those people older men are more matured and they offer more security while for some ladies they prefer there spouse to be within there Age range.


   Well,for me i like my spouse to be older than me, say like 2-3 years but if e don dey reach like 5years difference, no, am not interested, i want someone i can relate with, not someone i would be shy to talk to or i won't want to express myself to because i don't want to come off as disrespecting him, you know i was once in this situation some time ago, i had this family friend of ours i use to call brother so so so, na so one plus one join and we started dating, but because i use to call with respect before we started dating it was not easy to eliminate the brother thing,  so i was practically calling my boy friend brother, choi, and that was during my undergraduate days, my friends would laugh at me anytime i call him in there presence, to make matters worse because i respected him so much,so  i was suffering and smiling in that relationship, i could not express myself, so since then i backed off from such kind of relationships
 What about you, do you like your man to be much older than you??? or you like him to be older but not very much?? or what is your opinion generally on this issue? lets talk in the comment section.

18 comments:

  1. I'm just like you. Max 5 years. But u can't do younger men sha.

    www.mololasblog.com

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    1. i can't do younger men too, thanks for stopping by dear

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  2. Great post, have a great weekend!

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    1. tanks blogorrati, am glad i found your blog, nice space u've got there papi *in maami Tib's voice*

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  3. Relationship can thrive in any year gap considering the understanding is there

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    1. yeah right understanding is key. tanks chigozie

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  4. *CLEARS THROAT* Wellllllll I don't have an issue with age really. I can be a lover girl most times and so i ignore age as long as I love you. I almost dated a guy that was 17 years older than me...na 17 i type o...nor be 7 *covers face*. I really did care about him but he was now the scared one. He was scared of how i was so comfortable with him irrespective...so the thing did not work. My bf is 6 years older than me and we are very very cool. Thats for me sha....i just love up and that just blinds me...even your age.

    www.mylifeasmoby.com

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    1. 17 years???? moby..., lol @ love just blinds you
      thanks for stopping by dear

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  5. 10 years and above BUT not my father's age mate shaa. 10-20 is OK for me. So far, I haven't been with less before.

    Pamscrib.blogspot.com

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    1. hmmm, different strokes for different folks, tanks for stopping by pams

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  6. Understanding is the key.

    Www.trendwithgloria.blogspot.com

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    1. yes sure, understanding is key, tanks for always stopping by Gloria

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  7. I'm with you 5 maybe 7yrs only because after that it's difficult to relate with one another the events/things I grew up with. Guys younger than me seem less mature. But we never know ... if Mr. Right comes along it may change.

    One thing I've noticed we are quick to tell you what we'll do in any given circumstance, but when confronted with the situation may react just the opposite of what we thought ... so most of my hypotheticals were Wrong.

    Like your new page layout! Understand it takes adjustments, but maybe place about me on a upper tab or on the sidebar vs. the bottom. Not judging ... Just a thought/suggestion since those new to your site may not scroll down.

    Be Well and Have a Remarkably Great Day! :)

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    1. oh tanks so much Cheri, nice suggestion, i quite understand and it makes a whole lot of sense, its done already, tanks so much for always looking out for me dear, you make me wanna do more

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  8. My own perspective or personal life, I don't dig guys that are like 35-year-old age difference, to me they are still growing and will want to taste life. Even if they are married, they are the ones you see in clubs, bars gisting away while wife is at home. Unlike the older ones they Ave seen it all. Nothing freaks them cos they Ave done all that. Is it in decision making or family ish, the older hubby will be able to stand by you against his family.
    Talking from experience, my hubby is 10 years older and am loving it by the day. He is so mature, he knows what he wants. We play like age mate, I remember smacking him yesterday cos he didn't obey me. When I call him sometime or ask him a question he will say "ma " yes ma "infact we behave like friends.
    Chai I like story sha.

    Bolateethole.blogspot.com

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    1. hmm, am glad to hear that, all this love story make wanna get married fast, tanks for stopping by

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  9. I think I can even date someone am older than or is older than me with 2,3 years. Maturity and understanding is the key for me.


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