What Do you look out for in a spouse??

Hello Lovely LD fam, good morning sweethearts, Happy new week, How was your weekend, mine was awesome, you remember i said my brother was getting married this month, last Saturday was the D-day, i enjoyed myself, as i got to see people i have not seen in years and all of them be looking at me and saying, you are all grown now...lol, i had so much fun, as i even participated in the catching of the Bride's bouquet though i didn't catch, Sunday was beautiful too, it was mid-year thanksgiving and i enjoyed the service, all in all, my Weekend was glam.

   Now straight to today's post because i know i have not been blogging consistently this month, During the wedding it just dawned on me that at least every marriage went through the wedding process, the bride and groom having radiant smiles on their faces and everywhere looking beautiful, but how come we have so many failed marriages, why do some people have so many awful stories of hurt in their marriage, where have we missed it when it comes to marriage??

6 Red flags to look out for in any relationship

Hello my people, *kneels down* am sorry for not putting up love the greatest of all 2 up yesterday as promised, i went to an owanbe, it was a wedding and i was enjoying the groove of the new bride and groom, that i could not type the post, because i was too excited, i can't wait for my big day too, it was an exciting experience mehn, well next Sunday by God's grace the post will be up, hope my apology is accepted?

Well i believe in knowledge and finding out about things, so thats why am presenting you this six traits below, have a blessed week ahead lovelies

Red flags are violations of proper dating etiquette and standards. Everyone dating should protect their hearts and minds from those looking to abuse them. Everyone wants love, and everyone deserves love. No one, however, deserves to be abused.

These six red flags below indicate things to watch out for when you’re dating someone. If someone is currently treating you this way or starts to treat you in any of these ways in the future, RUN! Don’t look back!

1. They Want to Change

You Have you only been dating for a short period of time and they are already telling you they hate your life-long friends? That is a HUGE red flag! Have they already been encouraging you to move in with them, or worse yet, move out from where you’re currently living with family, friends, or your own apartment to a place they feel will be more fitting, alone? Do they complain about the way you do your hair, what clothes you wear, and try to watch yourevery move? Do they laugh at your dreams and goals telling you that they are stupid or that you should focus on something else?You, my friend, are dating a control freak, and you should run as fast as you can! Control freaks don’t really love you or accept you the way you are. They simply want you to fit the narrative of what they feel the perfect partner is for them. They want someone they can watch and break down. Life is too short to live it the way someone else thinks you should live it.

7 things you should not tell your friends about your relationship

Hello LD Fam, good morning and have a blessed week ahead.Remember to let love shine in everything you do this week and the lord will bless all you lay your hands on but to avoid stories that touch the heart, stop sharing things that are personal with friends, read and learn!

Relationships work better when they’renot exposed to the whole world! Sure, we all want to brag about this and that but some things are better kept between the two of you.

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1. Intimate Details
What happens in the bedroom, should stay in the bedroom. Never, and I meanNEVER, let out your int.imacy Details toyour friends. It’s not only bad if your partner gets to hear it from someone else, it’s just embarrassing. No one wants you to tell them how good or bad the s.ex is, keep it in the bedroom, only you can make your Friends respect your partner and the in.timate details should be kept from even the closest of friends.

LOVE THURSDAY- 10 PERSONALITY TRAITS IN WOMEN THAT MEN LOVE

Without wasting much time, I will get right to the point. I am going to give you 10 personality attributes that men love to see in the women they fall headover heels in love with. Men are attracted to women that are:

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1. Intelligent –This attribute ranks veryhigh, after men have gotten past your looks. Men love women that are smart, opinionated, and articulate. Most enjoyspeaking to women who have their own point of view on subjects and are passionate in discussing affairs of the day. Men love to debate, and if you canmake them believe, or at least respect, your point of view, then you have a man that will see you as an equal, and not as an ornament to be displayed to the rest of the world until the next bestornament comes his way.

DATE MISTAKES YOU SHOULD AVOID

  Hello sweet people, how are you today, i feel so excited today, so whats its with
south Africans, are we not one in the kingdom of God???
   Well, we all love dates don't we? we all like those moments when we go out with
someone for a while, its amazing how some mistakes can be a turn off to that person
 who took you out or you that was taken out and you will be like,i won't go out with
this person anymore,especially if its a first date, you must get your acts together,
because there is no redo button for first impression,

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 Below are the common mistakes that can be disgusting;

BEING LATE;this is a total no no,no one likes to be kept waiting, it could be
annoying when one party has to wait so long before the other party arrives,
 especially if you both agreed to a certain time, it could speak volume on a
person's time management skills

DON'T COME WITH A FRIEND; two is company, three is a crowd,
don't come with a friend except you guys have agreed about it before.

BITING YOUR NAILS: sometimes dates might be awkward especially if its a
first date or you are not so farmilar with your date, but biting your nails is a bad
way to ease the tension, its a bad habit and its disgusting, yuck! its a big turn off.

FONDLING YOUR CELL PHONE OR GADGETS: don't relay on your gadgets
 to keep you company, when you have a date who is suppose to do that, it is
 annoying and irritating when you feel you don't have your date's attention .
 fondling with your gadgets may mean you are not so into your date, and you
 don't want to portray that outside

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TALKING WHEN YOUR MOUTH IS FULL: talking when your mouth is full is
bad table etiquette, and you don't want to let your date know that you have bad table
manners right? it even disgust some people, so don't ever try it.

  DON'T FORGET TO BE MODERATE; don't eat too much, don't talk too much,
 don't try to impress, just be yourself.

WOMEN ARE LIKE PLANTS

     Hello darlings, good morning, happy weekend, tanks so much for your 

 love and concern on yesterday's post, God bless you all abundantly.

 so there has been this random thought on my mind for a while, i have

 come to realise that when you are in love nothing matters to you than being

 loved back and for ladies lemme say the only things that matters is love, 

care and attention. so when i saw this article on Facebook, i totally felt the

 writer just put my mind in words; enjoy

Women are like Plants! They are Mother Nature!

They need constant Love!Care!& Attention to grow

just the way you want them to...

If these three things aint available from YOU who claims to

Love them,then be rest assured SOMEONE else is standing 

by to assume your duty...

Yes! A relationship is full time job, but the job itself is the woman

 you're in it with! Notwithstanding though, Men are also meant 

to be Cared for/Attended to,but its unlike women.....

Being Realistic here, women love LOVE!

so, if they lack it from YOU! then they'd give in to the NEXT 

available giver...

so! while you are going unto a woman, make sure you 

don't slack on these Three things, else, you'd come out

saying WOMEN ARE INSATIABLE CHEATS!

UNCONTENTIOUS &so on

you have to be constant on them!..

 if  you can't, then don't bother going after them

so thats it, i agree with the writer to some extent because when a woman 

is in love, money or other things does not matter, what matters most is the 

love, care and attention...what do you think???