Monday, June 8, 2015

7 things you should not tell your friends about your relationship

Hello LD Fam, good morning and have a blessed week ahead.Remember to let love shine in everything you do this week and the lord will bless all you lay your hands on but to avoid stories that touch the heart, stop sharing things that are personal with friends, read and learn!
Relationships work better when they’renot exposed to the whole world! Sure, we all want to brag about this and that but some things are better kept between the two of you.

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1. Intimate Details
What happens in the bedroom, should stay in the bedroom. Never, and I meanNEVER, let out your int.imacy Details toyour friends. It’s not only bad if your partner gets to hear it from someone else, it’s just embarrassing. No one wants you to tell them how good or bad the s.ex is, keep it in the bedroom, only you can make your Friends respect your partner and the in.timate details should be kept from even the closest of friends.

2. Fights
We all want to go talk to someone when we are down and sad. But it’s probably not a good idea to tell your Friends about your fights, you two will be fine in a few days but your friends will remember the fights and tell You about the fights every now and then. Couples fight, it’s normal, keep it between the two of you, you can’t Trust your friends with the fights you have with your partner. If it’s really thatserious, go see a therapist. Anything isbetter than letting your relationship be an open book to the world!
3. Money Issues
Like I said, only you can make your friends respect your partner. The more you talk bad about them behind their Backs, the more it gets difficult for you in the future. If your partner is going through some money issues, don’t go Telling your friends about it. Not only will it make you seem cheap, it will forever make you seem like a gold digger. Whatever it is, talk it out with your partner and not the rest of the world.
4. Their Personal Problems
Never discuss their personal life issues with your friends in hopes of getting some positive input on things. If something bad happens in your partner’s family, keep it to yourself because they trusted you with that Information and they think you’ll keep it to yourself. If they somehow find out you told others about them, you Might never be trusted again.
5. Their Past Relationships
Never discuss your partner’s past relationships with your friends, it will only lead to ridicule and negativity. Whatever they told you, they told you in confidence hands and they knew it will only stay with you, don’t break Their trust by telling others about it. Only you can make your partner trust you more and you hold that power In your hands as long as you stay quiet about their personal details with others.
6. Complaints
If things seem a bit off about your relationship, don’t go off complaining to your friends. If you do this a little Too often, your friends will start telling you to leave the person because they see how sad and miserable You are with them. Whatever problems you’re facing with them, talk to your partner about them and don’t Go complaining to your friends.
7. Comparing
Unless you want your friends to think negatively about your partner, don’t compare them to others in front of Your friends. We all go through ups and downs in relationships, it doesn’t mean you run off crying to your Friends about how your ex was so much better. These kind of things don’t go away, they usually travel to Your partner somehow and it hurts them when they get to know how badlyyou talk about them and how Little youtry to make your friends respect them.


  1. Hmmm informative...but for what happened in bedroom, guys gist about that alot when at joint with friends.

  2. Lol..but it shud not be, how do you want dos friends to look at your partner??thanks for stopping by and i love your blog

  3. You're right jare. Some people share too much about their relationships and that gives their friends and family a sense of entitlement.

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  4. I'm still a learner. Article on point!

  5. I am glad you said relationship...this is really good mehn...#1 tho'...if you are married...You wanna brag bout it...#justsaying...hehe

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  6. Hmmmm to have a lasting relationship or marriage, wisdom demands that you should learn to shut your mouth and use your brain..

  7. Very good points...the guys do this more than the ladies.. Nice post very informative

  8. You have to ask yourself if anyone except you can solve the problem. so what's the point. Tell God and keep it to yourself.You won't do anything they say eventually,so why tell them? Nobody really cares about you except you.

    1. so true! sometimes i feel bad revealing some secret to my childhod friend.i realise she is not loyal,i should even learn from her she doesnt tel me anything about what goes on in her family.i have keep my distance,no time for irrelevant talks.its better m busy blogging than chatting away with fake friends

  9. But some people cant keep their mouth shut...I once dated a guy that wouldn't keep shut, I jes dumped him like bad blood. cant deal.

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