Showing posts with label self discovery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self discovery. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Personality Tuesday- Dealing with low self esteem

Hello beautiful people, how is your week going?? Remember last week  we talked about temperament in personality Tuesday and i love the discussion we had, God bless you all

Today lets talk about Self esteem, while i was growing up and even up to recently i was battling with low self esteem, i just use to feel everyone is better than i am, but  just recently i got transformed from it all thanks to one wonderful person in my life, well low self esteem is when one is always feeling insignificant or less important, it could be a dream killer and it makes you feel less human, it could be caused by what you believe about yourself, It could be as a result of experiences i.e what you saw, heard or experienced earlier in life, it could also be as a result of neglect, abuse, failing to meet parental or peer group standards and lack of warmth, affection or family love
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HOW TO OVERCOME LOW SELF ESTEEM

Believe in yourself
: yes believe you can achieve anything and you are the best thing that has happened to the world, love and pamper yourself,  and most of all be around the people that love you and bring the best out of you (this really worked for me) because when you want to give up on yourself, they are always there to lift you up

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Personality Test- Temperament

 Hello my lovely, people, how is your week going, mine has been awesome, am just very happy this days like someone that licked one drum of honey, am thankful for God's grace, when i look at this year all together, i have a lot to be thankful for, enough of me already!

  Today we are going to engage ourselves with Personality Test, you know, i have come to understand that, if you don't know yourself, then you can't deal with other people, you will end up either been always hurt or always stepping on other people's toes, at a point in my life, i was very angry with everyone around me, people always getting on my nerves and annoying me, then i knew something was wrong with me, everyone can't be bad, then i went through the personality test,believe me, now there is rarely any person i can't live with, i spent part of my secondary school days in the boarding house, all through my university days, my school was fully residential, so we all lived in the hostel, is either we are 8 in a room, or 6 in a room and the lowest is 4 in a room, believe me i learned to be very tolerant and then i discovered that if you know each other, you will find it easy to relate well, which is where Temperament comes in, Temperament is a person's nature that affects their behavior, now there are basically four types of temperament which are: