How do you deal?

Hello my lovely LD fam,good morning, how is the week going, gradually i am begining to understand and see life from a different point of view and all this understandings are making me not to be able to drag anything with anyone or struggle for anything because at the end of the day, all is vanity also i am always thankful for every minute of life, what is money without happiness, what is comfort without peace of mind???...so dearies even with that little, if you have peace of mind, don't drag what your hands can't reach, just be patient and it will all make sense

  On a second note, how many of us have that shoe, cloth or underwear that you like so much, despite the fact that its old, you can't just let go  of it, i do, i have this pair of sandals that i love so much and i feel comfortable wearing it, despite the fact that the sole is gradually splitting into two, i am still rocking it and i would still continue to rock it till it finally cuts into two...lol...

  Now to the point of today's post, hoe do you deal with a stubborn headed friend, someone who does not take other people's opinion, someone that believes she is always right, even though every person around her thinks she is wrong, how do you deal with such person in love?

BIRTHDAY POST+RANDOM POST

Hiya lovely people, how is the day going? mine is going on well except that
am feeling a little lazy today, so am dedicating today's post to my lovely,
sugarcoated, beautiful and amazingly intelligent sister; Adetona Esther,
here we are saying Happy birthday to this beautiful diva and  my sincere
 prayer is that she will feel God's presence mightily in every aspect of her life.

isn't she amazingly beautiful????

  So, all you have to do to show my amazing sister some love is to drop a comment
wishing her a happy birthday in the comment section.
         So there has been this random thought on my mind for about some weeks now,
 don't you think the male folks are asking for too much from us as  ladies?? 
As a lady you have to be beautiful physically, you have to have a good character,
 you have to know how to clean the house , cook and keep the home generally
and then you have to be intelligent and what do they have to offer more than  marrying
you and making sure to take responsibility of the home, one day i heard a dude saying
my wife must be intelligent o even though am not, so that our children can be intelligent
and in my mind i was like *did you just spew that rubbish*
So what do you think??? let's talk, should guys too not have all this things they are
asking us ladies to have?