LOVE THURSDAY: BEING FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX; COOL OR NOT COOL

Hello lovely people, wow, today is the last day of the month of April, happy new month
 in advance lovely people, i don't know why but am so excited today.
  As a new feature to the blog, am bringing LOVE THURSDAY to you, so every Thursday,
 i will bring issues on Love and relationship here to be discussed, you may have issues
 you like to be discussed here, do send me a mail ayanbajoajibike7957@gmail.com
  and i will publish it, lets do this together people

 so on today's post we will be talking about being friends with your Ex, a lot of
people don't allow their spouses to be friends with their Ex because most times they
don't feel secure about this friendship, for some they think there could be spill over
 feelings while other people don't just like the idea at all, for me i don't see anything
 wrong in it, as i believe that been friends with an Ex does not mean any harm, once
 am done then am done, and then i believe that No one is an island, someday somehow
, our paths could still cross will i say because we once dated and it didn't work out then
 i can't help or can't receive help from an Ex.
 Yes i know some Ex left bitter pills, but then again we already talked about forgiveness
 and letting go, so i want to hear from you, do you think its ok to be friends with your Ex
 or are you are part of the team no way once we are done ,we are done, we can't be
 friends and another thing is can you allow your spouse be friends with their EX?

INSPIRATION WEDNESDAY- YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPINESS

Hello lovely people, how is everyone doing today??? well whats it with Nigerians
 and this trekking copycat syndrome, well maybe i will trek from Ogun to Abuja too may be Mr President can notice me and give me appointment...lol

 Its another Wednesday an its another inspiration Wednesday, if its your first time here,
we do this every Wednesday just to inspire someone to be better;

Yes, you are responsible for your happiness, sometimes in life, we put or place our
 happiness in people, often times, we end up being always unhappy, thats because no
one can make you happy except you, Do what rocks your boat, do the things that
make you happy, in everything you want to do, make your happiness a criteria,
always ensure you do what makes you happy and makes you be a better person

 No one can make you feel inferior without your consent, so never let them,
happiness is a state of mind,always be happy, train your mind to see Good in
 every situation, being happy does not mean everything is perfect, it means you
 have decided to look beyond the imperfections.You are responsible for your
 happiness never put the key to your happiness in someone Else's pocket.

WEDDING VERSUS MARRIAGE

Hello beautiful people, how are you today? Trust you fine, the month of April is gradually
 coming to an end, am so excited, whoop! it means alert go soon enter bah?

 Well this post is going to be very short but i hope it will be very interactive too,
i have noticed a norm that is fast becoming part of our society, i noticed that this
days people care more about wedding than marriage,

Ask me how? for so many reasons the big day takes the whole of a person's mind that
sometimes they just ignore the important things to look out for before marriage like
 i discussed here , for some people they just want their friends and everyone that has
 mocked them to see that they are getting married too, so they focus so much on wedding
 rather than marriage and after marriage, for other people the desperation to just be called
 Mrs something just makes them want wedding more than marriage while for other people
 so that the society can accept them, they stage a wedding forgetting that marriage is an institution,
 so let's talk, Do you think wedding is fast overshadowing the purpose of marriage and why do you
think so, or you don't agree with me on this issue, let's talk please people make this as interactive as possible.......

10 TIPS TO HELP YOU FIND THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS

Hello lovelies, how are you doing today? i hate Mondays and the seriousness that comes with it, so here is something to lighten your mood ,
 so on Friday April 24th, Lagos socialite Joro Olumofin shared Tips on how to stop being single on his Instagram page, read what he says below;

(1) Remove guys from your friendzone list: “Friendzone” is a mental classification or categorization of a guy or group of guys in a lady’s mind I.e she sees a guy as a non sexual object or as a brother. Some single  ladies today see having a lot of guys on their friendzone list as an achievement or an award, they enjoy the fact that guys keep trying to get their attention or approval while they call him things like “bro” , “cuz” , “G” “padi” as a means to discourage him from trying to talk to them.. My question is if you’re single and you’re looking for a boyfriend why have so many guys as just friends without giving them chances? Or opportunities to prove themselves. Marriage counsellors have revealed that most couples were initially just friends or co-workers. Un-friendzone some guys and see where it leads, you may just be swept off your feet..

2) Smile Often ; Look Approachable: A lot of guys are discouraged to approach a Lady who has a strong or mean face. They may be scared of instant rejection or think you’re just mean. Primacy Effect in Psychology makes emphasis on first impression being an important factor in perception. So Ladies if your face is strong and your heart is soft make an effort to smile more.
(3) Change your normal routine (try a new church, bar, cinema, beach) : If you’re a single lady and you’ve been attending the same church, cinema, bars for the past 16 months and there is no visible suitor I suggest you switch the branch of your church from Ikeja to Surulere, or Apapa to VI. This is a Process known as randomization; doing something different or attending new places will give you a new set of possibilities of meeting new suitors.

HAPPY IST ANNIVERSARY TIWA AND TUNJI BALOGUN

 @ Life's diary, we like to celebrate Love and wedding, Here is wishing Tunji and Tiwa Balogun a happy wedding anniversary, May God continue to make their love wax stronger. Beautiful couple!

To celebrate the anniversary the lovely couple treated themselves to a romantic dinner, see pics below

 choi...isn't this beautiful? Love is a beautiful thing, isn't it?