5 simple ways to make you and your partner stay in love

  Hello LD readers, thanks so much for the love and encouragement on yesterday's post, i feel blessed and honured to be on blogsville, God bless you all, i feel way better and refreshed all thanks to you all.

 Do you know you can be in a relationship or marriage and not be in love??? Do you even know that love is like a garden, if not tended to or taken care of and watered, it could become ugly and the beauty could die? Have you ever wondered why two people who were in love turned out not liking eachother again? Well the answer is Love needs constant nuturing and oiling and greasing for the fame to continue to burn, often times because we have been with our partner for long either in relationship or marriage, we tend to let our guards down and we don"t remember to do simple things that flames love again, here are the 5 things you can do to make the flames of your love keep burning for long



  Always be at you best: This is for both gender, step up your game, Look good always, you know the level of your spouse, don't dress below that, be presentable, let them be always proud to show you off to their friends and co-workers stay in shape and know what suits your body, smell nice and i believe we all know what how spouse likes us to dress, do not look shabby and disfigured because you have been together for long, keep doing the things you do before that attracts them to you.

Be Romantic: Do not let the fire of romance die,keep the little romantic gestures (e.g little thoughtful gifts, compliments, suprises and show of Affection like holding hands, sitting close and text messages) going from time to time even in the face of anything' going on in your different lives is necessary for the healthy growth of love.

Spend Time together: make out time to be together, every loving relationship needs dedicated time to grow and be the best it can be, spending quality time enjoying eachother's company, going out on dates, talking and listening to eachother's  challenges and encouraging eachother create memories that last long and keep the flames of love burning

Give eachother Space: as much as you must spend time together, you must give eachother space too, a healthy relationship needs space to allow eachother's individualities and identities to flourish, give room to miss eachother, so that when you are together you can maximise been together, each partner should live their lives, Go out, take time to be around other people, do your favourite sports e.t.c so that when you are together, you appreciate eachother more.

Don't Nag: Nagging seems almost h'armless, however it can kill a healthy relationship when done excessively and can even lead to resentment, if there are things that annoys you about your partner's behavior, try to dialogue maturedly when you both are relaxed

+1 Pray together: A couple that prays together, stays together'