Tuesday, March 3, 2015


Hello Dearies !
Hw is everyone doing? The heat this days is so much, thank God for the rain today.
So this post has been on my mind for long and days because av seen quiet a number of heart breaks happen because sum pple don't understand the basics of love
Below are a few things I feel must be in place before anyone can love and be loved:
Self Appreciation/Self love
Yes you have to love yourself, you av to love every aspect of you, your life, your appearance and all that pertains to you. Even the Bible says love your neighbour as yourself" which implies that you have to love yourself first, swthrt you were created by God and Psalms 139:14 says I am fearfully and wonderfully made; marvelous are your works .. ..., you have to believe it and receive it, you will find yourself in a much better frame of mind.
High Self esteem
You have to carry yourself with pride and dignity, you have to believe meeting you is the best thing that can happen to anyone
Be sure of yourself
Keep your head up and believe in yourself
Be positive
Don't wait for anyone to complete who you are
Always make your opinion count and never be bullied by anyone's success
Be the best you can be
Aim to always Improve yourself, be on top of your game,nobody wants to have anything to do with a blank person, learn new things, read books and always strife to be better than you were yesterday.
To be continued in my next post. Thanks for reading, please do share your thoughts in the comment section.


  1. Hi Debbie Ugo @ The Beautiful Eagle told about your post! Loved it! Will share! :)

    God Bless! Thanks & Have a Great Day! :)

    1. Tanks cherie,Tanks for visiting, God bless you too

  2. Hiya mami, I followed a link from Ug's blog....I am gonna watch out for this space eh....I likey so far...

    Tibs Tells Tales

    1. Tanks maami,tanks so much for stopping by, God bless u ma

  3. Unfortunately we hardly love ourselves but instead look out for validation from people.


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