TRUE LOVE NOT BLIND

    Hello everyone? how is everyone doing? i know everyone is anxious to know

 the results of the presidential elections, i am not so anxious anymore, i just want 

Inec to declare the winner so that our dear country will go back to how it was 

before all this election brouhaha started.

   I don't know how many of us has heard the common saying "True love is blind", 

this saying has mislead some people to starting what they cannot finish, 

some people just start a relationship with this believe then mid way they 

start losing what they feel

    LUST IS BLIND, INFATUATION IS BLIND BUT TRUE LOVE IS NOT BLIND,

    a whole lot of people just don't know the different between this three feelings, but 

    that will be post for another day.

  Below are facts or pointers to evaluate true love;

     True love is a gradual process

     True love grows and does not just happen

     Love at first sight is not true love

     True love develops with knowing each other   

     You don't fall in true love but you grow in true lovew

     True love is kind and not deceitful

     True love does not seek personal gain

     True love is enduring and understanding

     True love waits

        And the bible says it all in 1Corithians 13; 4-8

       so when it comes to true love consciously or unconsciously you choose who 

you love, because as you get to know eachother the love either grows or diminish 

based on who the other person is and how the person makes you feel, so the next 

time you see that plain lady with that handsome dude, don't say true love is blind 

just know that she makes him feel special and he appreciates having her.