Monday, June 29, 2015

What Do you look out for in a spouse??

Hello Lovely LD fam, good morning sweethearts, Happy new week, How was your weekend, mine was awesome, you remember i said my brother was getting married this month, last Saturday was the D-day, i enjoyed myself, as i got to see people i have not seen in years and all of them be looking at me and saying, you are all grown now...lol, i had so much fun, as i even participated in the catching of the Bride's bouquet though i didn't catch, Sunday was beautiful too, it was mid-year thanksgiving and i enjoyed the service, all in all, my Weekend was glam.

   Now straight to today's post because i know i have not been blogging consistently this month, During the wedding it just dawned on me that at least every marriage went through the wedding process, the bride and groom having radiant smiles on their faces and everywhere looking beautiful, but how come we have so many failed marriages, why do some people have so many awful stories of hurt in their marriage, where have we missed it when it comes to marriage??




  And then, i thought to myself again, one of the most important factors are misplaced priority, when choosing a spouse i believe it is a lifetime decision and one has to be very careful about it, but i realised that so many people marry for the wrong reasons, this is what brought about this post, let's discuss, as a single lady or guy, WHAT DO YOU LOOK OUT FOR IN A SPOUSE? i mean ok , the person i want to marry must have this and this, you don't have to tell us all, just tell us the important ones,what that spouse of yours must have , that if not its  no no

And for the married people what did you like that made you marry that person, i just want to come up with a little survey of things to Look out for in a spouse practically, but let me go ist,

  For me my man must be tuned to God, he must know God and have A solid relationship with God, then he must be Intelligent and he must Cherish me and also be a responsible Young man, so over to you, What do you look out for in a Spouse, or if you are married, what was the attraction, why did you marry that your partner???...Let's discuss in the comment section people

14 comments:

  1. Hiya mami....**eyes you** Where you been? Oh well, for me tho', I looked out for a man who would respect me and appreciate everything bout me...most especially RESPECT!

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    1. Ooh mami, i have just been lazying around, yes i totally agree Respect is one important factor to look out for, you must respect eachother, thanks so much mami

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  2. Me first of all beauty oooo then your relationship with God
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    1. Tanks for stopping by, but i know beauty is ab important factor o but the bible says beauty is vain but a woman that fears the lord, she shall be praised so let her love for God be the most important ooo, tanks for your contribution

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  3. He must have a good sense of humour...
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    1. Hmmm, well sense of humor is a secondary factor, it can be under compatibility, thanks for your contribution fisayo

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  4. Peace of mind....if I find someone that will make me feel at peace with almost everything in life, omo I go die there.

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    1. Hmmm, peace of mind is important but there are factors that lead to peace of mind e.g love for God, responsibility and compatibility, tanks for stopping by pat

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  5. Hmmmnnnn.... Osheeyyyyyy Turn uP Turn uP ladies and gentlemen... You know yeah Bubba... There is always a ghen ghen feeling when you meet someone who writes as she thinks... and that's just frosh like that **shines teeth... That's just gangster like that **wears Mr. Nigeria smile... So Hiya Bubba... First time here... and it's cozzy and warm...iLikey... Mehnnn this marriage something ehn... **cleans sweat... eeezzz not a joking sturVzz oh at aalzz at allzzz... but pending that we all have to make the choice... so let's go... when the time comes to enter life imprisonment ehnn.. iKid oh ;) what i want in a woman is one that appreciates the unseriousness that is me... One that sees the dream even when I lose focus... One that loves me regardless... One that loves GOD and loves her kids... when it's time to say I do... I hope to meet a woman that willl make me be both free as a bird and proud to be married to her... hehehhehe this was quite an interesting read Bubba... I am glad I found you **shines teeth.... kai... **hits head on the wall... Congrats to your ghen ghen brother... many years of Turn uP for him and his Iyawo oh... May they haf plenRRy plenRRy children aswell... **winks

    Sent from Ozumba Mbadiwe Traffic... :(

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    1. Ooh papi, tanks so much for stopping by, you know am a secret fan, i visit JDB even long before i started my own blog,i like the fact you look out for love, common grounds, love for God and then a woman that makes you feel like yourself..hmmm, thats a ghen ghen factor, and tanks for wishing my brother well.God bless you papi

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  6. I don't even know what to look for anymore. *sighs* Let God do the choosing for me.

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  7. I agree with amaka cos most times when you look gor and you get,it then turns around to be somethingelse in marriage...

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  8. My partner must be attentive. Verrryyyy important. Also he must love God and love people

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